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49 Mays Landing, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 16, 2013
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hey! I'm a warm hearted, fun loving man who enjoys almost anything. I was raised in Cliffside Park, NJ & have been living on LBI for the last 11 years. This past July I moved to Mays Landing. Nice town, but I'm not too familiar with the scene here... Anybody want to help me find the good music around here? I love going to see live music, camping, quiet nights watching tv, intimate dinners, candle light, incense, massage. I'm a romantic. I love to lose myself in the moment. I'm impetuous, spontaneous, and happy.
I've been a professional chef all my life which has provided me with many great stories, as well as the ability to make a great breakfast! I collect percussion instruments, I'm a drummer. One other unique feature, I don't like sports. I don't like to watch them at all. I am also the father of an eleven year old boy. He loves sports...Go figure!
What I’m doing with my life
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Taking a step back, and evaluating all possibilities. I'm a big believer in the force of the universe putting you where you need to be, when you need to be there. It is so important to try to recognize the sound of opportunity knocking. I like to think I can usually hear it.
I am being a great father.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, having fun, and making people happy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile & my New York City accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Authors: Ken Kesey, Jack Kerouac, Alan Ginsburg, Aldous Huxley, Kurt Vonnegut, Norman Mailer, Timothy Leary.
Favorite Movies: My favorite has to be It's a Wonderful Life. I've seen a lot of movies...I love movies! Love Christopher Walken, Robert De Niro, James Earl Jones, Hitchcock, I could go on & on.....
Favorite Music: I like almost any kind of music...However, I'm a big dead head, and I love jazz too. Love the Grateful Dead, Furthur, Jerry Garcia Band, Merl Saunders, David Grisman, Steve Kimock, String Cheese Incident, Allman Brothers, Bob Marley, Santana, Clapton, Soullive, Robert Walters, jam bands in general. I enjoy instrumental music a lot too.
Jazz~Miles, Wes Montgomery, Airto Moriera, Gato Barbieri, David Sanborn, Louis Armstrong, Cassandra Wilson, Bela Fleck,
Favorite food: whatever I'm eating.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hope, love, giving, trying new things, making the world a better place, internal peace
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I wound up here at this moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either with my son, or wrestling with my options
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will tell you all of it! I don't hide anything....
You should message me if
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You should message me if you are intrigued...If you recognize any of the authors or musicians I mentioned, or if you would like a great breakfast!