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42 M Victoria, British Columbia, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:05pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I would describe myself as a successful business owner and goal-oriented. I enjoy making people laugh. I am intelligent and can carry on meaningful conversations. I care about other people’s feelings. When I’m with someone special I like being spontaneous, adventurous, romantic, surprising them with little gestures, sensual, playful, and basically having that type of fun you see two people who just met in the movies having! Someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with! I’m looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires someone who they can connect with. I feel there has to be mutual physical attraction for there to be good chemistry between two people. So being fit and having good looks are important, as well as sensuality and affection. Having some similar interests helps–some things I enjoy are wine drinking at great restaurants, walking at the beach at night, going dancing, watching movies, traveling, going skiing, going on day trips to local attractions, having romantic nights at home, cuddling, and basically having a blast together.

Recently I have embraced what is affectionately known as the Burner culture. I went to the Burning Man for the first time this year in the Nevada desert and I loved it. I enjoy dressing up at parties and dancing long into the night with good people. Really looking for someone who would enjoy doing the same.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently thinking about what to put here...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting off this part of the questionnaire apparently.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Good question. I suppose my salt and pepper hair and my aura of trouble :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some favorite books are The Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, Think and Grow Rich, Ishmael, Way of the Peaceful Warrior, Way of the Superior Man.

Some favorite movies are Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Dark Knight, Lord of the Rings, Almost Famous, Fight Club, Monty Python's Holy Grail, High Fidelity, and have to say I really enjoyed The Avengers this year.

I don't have cable and I detest commercials but I do manage to follow a couple of shows. Game of Thrones is absolutely brilliant. Also like Son's of Anarchy, Californication, The Walking Dead and Archer (so you know my humor is twisted).

Music is the air I breathe. Currently I really enjoy going out on my Saturday night to check out one of the many fantastic DJs Victoria has to offer. At home I recently bought a record player and I am slowly buying Albums again. There really is a quality difference. Favorite bands are The Beatles, U2, The Police, Radiohead, Pink Floyd, Johnny Cash, Bob Marely, Queen, Tragically Hip, Ani Difranco, Neil Young, Depeche Mode, City and Colour, Sade, The Stone Roses, Portishead, too many really.

For food I am pretty open. Can't really say I have a favorite restaurant meal though I am always up for Sushi. Being originally from Alberta I like to think that I know my way around a BBQ and can cook an awesome steak. So yeah not a vegetarian.

With red wines however I am pretty picky. Currently have a love for Malbec wines. Not much of a white wine drinker. Love having a glass of wine after work :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My imagination
My children
My friends
red wine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Social Engineering. It amazes me how many people never think about how the people with real power subtlety manipulate societies.

Also think a lot about what is in our food.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have always found Friday's to be a bit of low key night. If I am not enjoying the company of a beautiful lady then I am out with some friends having a few drinks. Weekends with my kids I find myself on the internet answering silly questions like this one :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That there is no spoon.
You should message me if
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You are in a place in your life where you want to have fun and have a little bit of time in your schedule to do it. You like to be occasionally spontaneous and do something crazy like go to a music festival or a couple days in Vegas. You are comfortable dressing classy for formal events and also love to bomb around looking sexy in jeans and a t-shirt.

You should not message me if you are big on watching sports. Can't be bothered really. Just not my thing. Also if you are big into country music or hard metal music it is not going to work. Don't get it and don't want to.