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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Has kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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OK, this is new and improved, again.

So I just left Columbus, OH after a decade in residence there for my dream job located in the D.C. 'burbs. I'm now doing web development, with python, Django, and Flex.

...Right so, since I last updated. Got laid off from that job, got a more different job in D.C. then quit that after a year to move back to Cleveland, buy a house and get engaged (Now Married!), so that's what I'm doing now. Still doing the web development, with python and Django schtick, but now with different folks again.

I enjoy hanging out, chatting, drinking, games of any sort, dancing, singing, and cooking.

Worth mentioning that I'm non-monogamous. It doesn't define my life, but it's part of who I am. Currently married to and cohabiting with flttrbyhthr.

I am witty, really sarcastic, and geeky
What I’m doing with my life
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Playing board games & enjoying life.

Raising a son (2) and two step-children (7 & 10). I don't feel nearly as grown up as I thought my parents were by this point. But I'm faking it, I think.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
boardgames, Web development, computers (no I won't fix yours), other stuff. massages (in the non-licensed sort of way).
The first things people usually notice about me
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Gotta be the hair now - it no longer touches my shoulders, but I think it's still noticeable (Fauxhawk currently), or the skirt if I'm wearing one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I wish I read more books. The world needs more E-books, can't stay awake to read paper. American Gods was good (it was an E-book) :)

Well I used to read books on the train in D.C. Got through lots of Chuck Palahniuk... and ummm.. that's most of what I remember. Bridge Across Forever.

Don't think I've met a food I didn't like. brussle sprouts(check), Artichoke (Check - just tried it again recently -- Though it might not be so recent when you read this), Good Italian, Home Cooking, BBQ, Mexican, Salvadorian, Greek, Ethiopian, Iranian, Turkish - /Anything/

Music - Again, Everything. Rock, Goth, EBM, Synthpop, Darkwave, Clasical, Punk, Metal, Irish, Swing, Big Band, Afropop, Afrobeat, Pop, Alternative (Whatever that means), even some Country and Bluegrass. Anything from the 20s to the 90s, and today's favorites. ... Ok not the favorites. I'm honor bound to hate anything top40 for at least a few years.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Spell Checker, Laptop (15" Ti Book - RIP :( it's on its death bed now) Now MacBookPro 8,2), Friends, Good Food, Water (Honest, that's not a cop-out) Hmmm.. that's only 5, I'm pretty content really.

Years later and this is still true, no update.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I should spend a lot of time thinking about. .. And other people's grammatical errors.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying boardgame night with new friends. I also enjoy fine dining, bar hopping, and dancing in the evenings. ... OK who doesn't? I don't actually get up to any of those things anymore.

I'm more likely to be watching the boy child at the playground then cooking dinner while my wife is off for date night. Then it's WiiU, Computer games, or contracting 'till bed. If you want to distract me from that (the game and contracting, not the baby) I'd be down :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Already mentioned you can see me in a skirt sometimes. And I'm poly, if that wasn't clear from the profile thing.
You should message me if
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You're open minded and want to chat.