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Darkrose1

51 / F / Straight / Single

Ferndale, Michigan

Her Details

Last Online
May 16
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm a child-free songstress in search of a man who enjoys music, especially the home-brewed local kind! I'd also like for that man to be my partner in crime for movies, live shows, all kinds of celebrations, travel, and being part of some wonderful communities. You may be eligible if you:

live within 50 miles of Ferndale, Michigan, USA. (Yes, I'll even consider guys from Windsor, Ontario, Canada -- I have an enhanced driver's license and I'm not afraid to use it!)

are open to nontraditional religion(s)

support equal rights (for example, marriage) for LGBTQ persons

are expressive, articulate, kind, affectionate, playful, outgoing, and comfortable in most social settings and with all sorts of people

are either child-free, or have grown children out on their own

are gainfully employed or comfortably retired, and able-bodied

I am by no means an aspiring Olympic athlete, but I'm trying to fit more exercise into my life. A walking (and hopefully, in time, running!) buddy would be a great bonus.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a steady day job, but play music and write songs in my "spare" time. I recently finished recording my second CD and will soon be planning the whirlwind release tour (i.e., gigs at some local venues). During the summer of 2011 I worked in a petition campaign to recall our governor. In Fall 2011 and Winter 2012 I provided some support to a local Occupy movement. These days I'm focusing my time and energy on activities related to my music and spirituality and have put the political stuff on the back burner.
I’m really good at
harmonizing with other singers. I play guitar well enough to accompany myself and provide rhythmic back-up in ensembles. I'm also a good writer -- not so much with fiction, but with writing songs and step-by-step instructions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Some books I've enjoyed include "The Fifth Sacred Thing", by Starhawk; "Women Who Run With the Wolves" by Clarissa Pinkola-Estes; "Strange Days : My Life With and Without Jim Morrison", by Patricia Kennealy-Morrison; "Eat, Pray, Love", by Elizabeth Gilbert; Jean Auel's "Earth's Children" series; and "God Is Not One: The Eight Rival Religions That Run the World--And Why Their Differences Matter" by Stephen Prothero.

In general, I enjoy movies with these kinds of themes: musicians/bands; science fiction (especially time travel); counter-culture; and environmental/social justice. Horror movies of the blood-and-guts variety completely turn me off.

I'm one of those oddballs who has an analog TV and a converter box (not even basic cable). Yes, I know I could subscribe to Hulu or Netflix or even get a Roku device to watch shows from my Internet connection; but these days the few shows I catch on regular broadcast television (mostly sitcoms late in the evening) are plenty.

I especially like music from the 60s and 70s, although I also enjoy some of the current stuff. In terms of general styles, I prefer rock, folk, and some country music.

Cheese is one food I could never give up. In terms of cultural cuisine, I'm open to pretty much anything. (Although if it involves eating bugs or something similar, you may want to postpone telling me what was in that great dish from last night until a couple of days later ....)
The six things I could never do without
are my glasses, my guitar, my laptop, my cell phone, coffee, and the summer season. (I don't consider my family, friends, and cat to be "things". 8-) )
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how I could restructure my life to be more environmentally friendly yet personally rewarding. (No clear, immediate solutions yet -- maybe YOU have some ideas?)
On a typical Friday night I am
out having fun with good friends or (if I have no such plans) catching up on chores and reading at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is that, unlike the stereotypical woman, I crave salty snacks much more than I do sweets (even chocolate). Potato chips and dip don't last long in my house (which is why I avoid buying them!).
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are self-sufficient; a little left of center politically; responsible but young in spirit; enjoy music, dancing, and books; are open to new ideas; and are interested in truly changing humanity's relationship with the planet. (Bonus points if the word "Reclaiming" has a special significance for you.) Preference is given to those who include a photo of themselves on their profiles.