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37 Redlands, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 23
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Listen close. In me there is another side. The twilight zone, a place to hide. It draws me in, fear set aside.

Love. You give this love for me. And shape my dreams anew. You are my love untamed. You give me love."


If you were looking for a short and sweet profile, mine is not for you :)

Certain passions of mine include music, reading, raising and being a part of my children's upbringing (shocking huh?), exploring new places (with a little nudging or insanity) and appreciating what life has to offer.

With the music I am mostly just an avid collector, but I've played around with writing reviews on my own website and DJ'ing online. Nothing major, but I like to think I can make a good playlist for various occasions. Music makes everything more enjoyable, and sharing that joy with others is my drug of choice. Pretty much any outdoor activity or exercise I enjoy, with hiking and running being at the top of the list. Admittedly I don't get outdoors as much as I enjoy it, but that does make each trip a little more meaningful and appreciated!

I am currently just trying to enjoy my life, while becoming accustomed to my new home. I've been living in Redlands for a year, but will love Northern California forever and visit whenever I can. I do like Redlands, but have been surprised at the differences between the Bay Area and Redlands. It's odd to think it's the same state at times, but exploring something new always opens up the opportunity for something exciting!

While I wish for every moment to be filled with rainbows, unicorns (for my daughter), dragons (for my son) and happiness; I recognize life doesn't come in just one flavor. It comes at us from every angle, with endless surprises; which I just try to take it all in stride. It is my goal to try and find the ray of light, in every experience brought my way. The saying "Don't be sad because it's over, be happy because it happened" is a good example of what I strive for.

A little bit of randomness also: I find the German language to be absolutely amazing. Not that other languages aren't also impressive, or as interesting; but something about German fascinates me. It may not be universally known as a 'sexy' language, but it has that effect for me. Pull whatever you want out of that admission :)

I am exuberant, abstract, and benevolent (badly sarcastic at times too, I must admit).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring the galaxy one moment, stressing at getting the next TPS report completed for work, then repelling a tank invasion at the next moment. During all that I am trying to be a good parent whether I am with or without my kids. I want them to experience these same joys, or make new ones all on their own. They sure are showing me many new joys, making life's journey that much more exciting!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I used to think I was good at listening. Then I sat through this course on being assertive and communication with people, and realized I kind of sucked at listening! That was a bit of a shock. So I will say that I *try* to be good at listening.

Something I am good at though is being randomly silly. I can be responsible for sure, but without random silliness; life as an adult is pretty boring.

As I mentioned earlier, playing DJ is something I think I am good at when it comes to making a playlist. Especially for those late nights with friends, where the drinks flow and the laughs are abundant.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am told my blue eyes stand out, but I do honestly wonder what people first notice about me besides my eyes.....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(>a<)Books: Science-fiction, mystery, action/adventure and even the occasional graphic novel (yes, that is the grown-up way to say comics). Can't give you a list of author names to be honest, cause I usually focus on the stories and forget who wrote them. If I had to name one though, I'd say Dan Abnett. My interests are not limited to just those styles, but those are the most prevalent in my life.

(>b<) Movies: Seven, Memento, Lock Stock & Two Smoking Barrels, Identity, Inception, Super Troopers, and Interstellar. I like a good action flick, but mystery/suspense and comedies easily appeal to me as well. I can't think of any genre I would NOT watch, especially if in good company :)

(>c<)Music: So the interests are broad, leaving out country and I try to avoid pop (radio friendly), but even I am guilty of liking stuff that makes it to the radio at times. I didn't think lists would mean much, but here is a range of interests to feed the masses:

Devo, NSP, Fear Factory, Northern Lite, Kosheen, Scissor Sisters, Rob Zombie, Ministry, Enigma, Crookers, Hakan Libdo, Lights of Euphoria, Mindless Self Indulgence, La Roux, Rhino Bucket, Velvet Acid Christ, Atmosphere, Pro-Pain, Snog, Kool Keith, ZZ Top, VNV Nation, David Guetta, Xingu Hill, Guttermouth, Garbage, Gorillaz, MC Chris, Del the Funky Homosapien, Gridlock, Paris, She Wants Revenge, Primus, Gary Numan, Akala, the broad range of 80's music and old school hip-hop from the late 80's and 90's. There are good artists nowadays too in hip-hop, but there is a lot of garbage to weed through it seems!

(>d<) Foods: Mexican and Thai food easily sit at the top, but I am flexible.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Music
2) Family/Friends
3) Trips out into nature
4) My kids (yes, this is separate for me from family already mentioned)
5) Computers (kind of attached to them)
6) My imagination (my best friend and enemy at times)
Note: These are not in order of importance.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
~ Music, music and more music. Okay, so I use the music to channel my imagination. My imagination is busy thinking of all sorts of crazy things, because if I lose that; what is life really about? I plan on using this gift as long as I have it!

~ What I would do to make humanity realize it's ONE race, and not a bunch of races; if I was given the power to bring my imagination to life.

These lines from a song:

"I know how everything works, still I barely survive it. I know how everyone feels, but I can't seem to tell them. Cause every time that I try, it seems to repel them. If no one's getting my drift, what good is having this gift?"

I am pretty sure most of us feel this way, and it keeps us divided despite the similarity we all share. Why is that?

~ Do women read through men's profiles on here or are they like the men, who I am told; tend to skip reading and look at photos and send short and unsweet messages randomly?

~ When I can sing these words to someone again: "I want to stop and thank you baby. I just want to stop and thank you baby, yes I do, how sweet it is to be loved by you. How sweet it is to be loved by you."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to stay awake as long as possible, and typically failing LOL :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to imagine what I'd look like with long black hair, and be a lead singer in a band. I can't sing worth a crap, but this idea is fun to think about. The kind of long hair that would look really cool while headbanging! LOL
You should message me if
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~ You are simply looking for a friendly person to talk to.

~ you can accept the fact I have children, and I love them with all my heart; but can also care for others. I am not looking for someone to help me raise my kids. I am looking for someone who stimulates my mind and is willing to enjoy life in its pure form. Not a life of material attainment or simply spending money on the unnecessary BS pushed on us these days.

~ you look to the stars and wonder what's out there, or simply just drink in their beauty shining down on us. Do you support humanity's reach for the stars? If so, we should talk. =)

~ you can appreciate that a little attention to your body's health goes a long way. I don't have a strict workout routine, but I believe in staying active with my body, and would love to find someone who at least respects that, if not also tries for the same.

~ you are happy with your life as it is, or where it's going for the most part. We can't reach perfection with life, but we can get pretty close with a healthy state of mind.

~ you don't define who you are and what you believe, based off a religious doctrine. If you think good, try to be good and concern yourself with only your sins, and not to define others sins; then we'll probably click on this topic.

~ you found a spelling/grammar error in my profile LOL !

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