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Darrelljr

26 / M / straight / Single

Minneapolis, Minnesota

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Kids
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am unorthidox, gregarious, and genuine.

My Self-Summary

Well I find trying to explain who I am in a few paragraphs almost impossible. I hate to put myself into some category and leave you with some false picture of who I am. I can be a different person at different times. Sometimes I'm cool, sometimes I'm boring, sometimes I'm happy, and sometimes I'm sad. I've been through alot which isn't to say I have issues I think if anything it has helped to make me humble and to cherish what I've got and to not act without thinking about the consequences. I'm pretty open minded, not enough to let anything in my head but enough to understand where others are coming from. I am blunt though which some I'm sure take as to be opinionated but to me it's just being open and honest. I love understanding new things and conversation. ...I'll write more later whenever I get around to it ;)

What I’m doing with my life

Well I'm going to college and plan to stay in college for a few more years until I finish up. I was premed for most of my time in school but I have decided to follow my heart and do what I'm good at which is understanding history. It's a relief to take classes that I don't really need to study for which isn't to say I'm all that lazy (I ran a collegiate honor society for 2 years after all) But even though I'm a little nerdy people often never pick up on it. I'm not really in college to learn I feel most of what we need to learn we can do without it (and tuition). I'm just there for the degrees. I also work for the Twins and do some part time work for the Vikings in the off season. But I'm not a big sports guy. I just enjoy the people and the Twins treat us employees really well.

I’m really good at

Well I mentioned History, I'm good at explaining things and even if it's about something that you may be kinda blah with, I can generally make it sound interesting without clouding the topic with BS. I'm really good at understanding others (well most others) and getting on their level. I have made a pretty diverse network of friendships through the years and I really like it that way.

The first things people usually notice about me

Well I dress well and I smell good ( kinda random but hey it gets noticed first lol) Hopefully everyone notices how hot I am but eh

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Oh wow I love all of these things. I don't read like I used to but there is nothing like a kick ass book. I generally read stuff about history or philosophy or how things work but some Lord of the Rings, Dan Brown, or an old classic like silence of the lambs that can keep you tied in is always good.
As far as movies I probably have more movies than anyone you know which isn't to say I waste all of my money on lame movies but being a student with MN weather I find it to be a good hobby

Music- Well like movies I listen to stuff all over the map. Rap, Rock, Country, Espanol... if it sounds good or carries a message I care about well I'm always down.

Food- I love food and wish I had the time to go to school for cooking but not for work just to learn how to cook amazing things from people with all of those little tips that turns a 3 star meal into a ten. I suppose I like pasta dishes more than anything but it's hard to say what sort of food I like the most.

The six things I could never do without

My wallet
My ring
my glasses ...ya I know lame but I do like to see
my phone
my computer ...but ya mostly for facebook sad huh
Ipod

....oh crap I forgot clothes, a bed, blankets, pillows, food, water, heat, AC, love, happiness, and friends. Well you get the idea

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Travel and the future. I've been to Mexico a dozen times and as much as I love it and the food, culture, climate, etc I need to see more of the world. We only have so much time to appreciate what the world has to offer and there is so much that we don't even know that we are missing out on. Rome is my number one goal but I think my favorite place will probably end up being somewhere I have never even heard of before.

As for the future well I wonder about all of it and I strive to not have a set detailed plan as things like life shouldn't be fully decided until you are at the point of making choices, analyzed yes but set in stone no. Because when you set a standard that ends up not matching up to where you end up it's a big letdown and life is far too short to let yourself down needlessly. But goals are very important as without them what are we doing.

On a typical Friday night I am

Stalking victims as I am an aspiring serial killer. Ok I guess not this isn't myspace after all but hey writing this made me laugh so I'll keep it here

You should message me if

Your a good person and are genuinely interested in getting to know me. But please no fake people or con artists or anyone that wants to give me a cam show, I don't care what you do on camera that crap is lame. But as long as your a good person feel free to write me something, that's what we are all here for anyways right?