Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love traveling, learning, outdoors, scuba diving, pool,
motorcycles, fire-breathing, ballroom dancing, chan, to name a few.
I have no interest in religion. I'm a gluten free vegan, and am
testing the pure diet (no onions or garlic). It's very hard to get
me angry, and I try to be a helpful person and I'm always seeking
to better myself. I intend to live a long time and at the very
least make a dent in the world around me. So I read about nutrition
frequently, And though bluntly honest to the extent of occasionally
sounding insulting, I am almost always friendly :)
A person must constantly internalize to create and maintain a sense
of self. Else you become a mash-up of what your peers are and what
society tells you to be. I travel to better understand people and
life and to define myself.
I'm originally from CT, USA but not sure where I'll end up. And I'm
currently in Zeng Cheng, Guangzhou, China
I'd call myself an optimalistic optimist. I try to be the best
possible person I can be, and I seek someone who is likewise. So I
befriend many really amazing people, but I'm not a fan of the idea
of moderation, because it's basically an excuse for apathy. So if
moderation is something you're into then we're definitely not
relationship compatible. I don't mean to say I'm by any means
perfect, I have many flaws just like everyone but I constantly try
to be better.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am now teaching English to kids in China.
learning, planning, loving :)
setting my life up to become the man I want to be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Traveling on a budget, Doing what I say I will
The first things people usually notice about me
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calm/ friendly composure, I try to be open to new people/ things
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Gift of Fear, How and When to be Your Own Doctor, Atlas
Movies: Stardust, Ip Man, Instinct, The Sum of All Fears, to name a
Shows: Person of Interest, Mentalist, Naruto
Music: Taylor Swift, Plumb, Lindsey Stirling, Enya
Heart of the Lamp (bridge)
You and I
We can start a fire of love
When we're together,
We're brighter than a million stars
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
air, water, calories, senses, communication, companionship
I'm just in a literal mood
glasses, passport, rope, clothing, friends and family
slightly less literal of a mood
desserts, gambling, beautiful women, world traveling, money,
just to be ridiculous, arguably my addictions
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I need to do today and tomorrow and the next 3 months to
progress through life and grow in a manner I desire
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating vegan sushi, I can't read chinese or speak with most people
so vegan sushi is my only option in ZengCheng that I know of at the
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a monster, but aren't we all. The difference between those who
do terrible things and those who don't is the environment someone
grows up in. I am open about who I am and am not in denial about
anything I am. We all hate things through own own perception of
right and wrong. All hatred in us is the same simply vented to
different areas, one of the main differences is that the bad guys
accept what they are. While most people will try and avoid things
not accepted by society as good/decent.
I wonder if I may scare some people by this, I'm a rather friendly
and often quite childish, and I very much dislike violence. But if
peace is to be achieved for the world someday we can't shut people
out because they are bad or evil, we are all created by the causes
and conditions, people with lacking moral understanding were
unlucky in their upbringing but are just as capable people. I live
in many ways with black and white views but that isn't to say I
don't see where had things happened differently in my life I
would've been a bad person myself. The only differences between any
two people is the environment they were born into and the family's
Also I struggle with my sexual desire, though I believe in
abstinence, I've had times in which I was weak and lost that
battle. I would say my sexual desire is a good bit higher than
average which makes it difficult.
You should message me if
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You've done a lot of traveling and care to share about awesome
places. You match me amazingly well in the questions, If you have
any questions you'd like to ask me. I am very particular in what
I'm looking for (If we're more than 6% enemy then we're not
relationship compatible) so its very possible I give a polite no to
any interest in being more than friends, but I'll talk to just
about anyone that wants to. :) Well except maybe gay guys that
would make me feel a little weird, not to be offensive. That being
said if we have a rather large percent enemy then it is up to you
to start a conversation, I'm not going to put time into responding
to a hi, or hello when we're not a very good match. I'll just say
hi/hello back to you.
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