A person must constantly internalize to create and maintain a sense of self. Else you become a mash-up of what your peers are and what society tells you to be. I travel to better understand people and life and to define myself.
I'm originally from CT, USA but not certain where I'll end up. I think I may switch locations every five years or so. Africa or South America. five in states, five out.
I'd call myself an optimalistic optimist. I try to be the best possible person I can be, and I seek someone who is likewise. So I befriend many really amazing people, but I'm not a fan of the idea of moderation, because it's basically an excuse for apathy. So if moderation is something you're into then we're definitely not relationship compatible. I don't mean to say I'm by any means perfect, I have many flaws just like everyone but I constantly try to be better.
Most of the time I'm unkempt, and I'm usually rather confrontational when it comes to things that I'm passionate about. I'm looking for someone very much like myself, very practical, primary field of interest most likely something scientific. I have what I believe is a light sarcastic sense of humor. I'm also judgemental. Read through my questions if you want a good idea of whom I am.
I am a bit clingy, at least I think I will be, never been in a serious relationship, and am very set on only ever being in one.
In love I am seeking someone that I could never feel any bit of disdain for. Interestingly enough I was recently reading the book Blink and they pointed out that that worst of the four horsemen in relationships is contempt. I have more than the average number of rare standards that I have set for myself and whomever my lover turns out to be should I meet her. Picky would be an understatement.
Ideally I'm looking for someone within 7 years of age. But I've found that people can't contact you if you're outside their age requirements so I've set it to 18-99
Soon I'm going to take classes to be an EMT for a couple years.
learning, planning, loving :)
setting my life up to become the man I want to be.
I've decided that my area of specialty will be blood. focusing first on nutrition and maybe later on, genetics. So I will go about getting educated in that. I'm also very interested in renewable energy, but it will be some time before I do much studying of it.
calm/ friendly composure, I try to be open to new people/ things
Author: Malcolm Gladwell
Movies: Stardust, Ip Man, Instinct, The Sum of All Fears, The Book of Life, Monster Hunt, Big Hero 6, to name a few
Shows: Person of Interest, Mentalist, Naruto, One Punch
Music: Taylor Swift, Plumb, Lindsey Stirling, Enya
Heart of the Lamp (bridge)
You and I
We can start a fire of love
When we're together,
We're brighter than a million stars
glasses, passport, rope, clothing, friends and family
I wonder if I may scare some people by this, I'm a rather friendly and often quite childish, and I very much dislike violence. But if peace is to be achieved for the world someday we can't shut people out because they are bad or evil, we are all created by the causes and conditions, people with lacking moral understanding were unlucky in their upbringing but are just as capable people. I live in many ways with black and white views but that isn't to say I don't see where had things happened differently in my life I would've been a bad person myself. The only differences between any two people is the environment they were born into and the family's dietary history.
Also I struggle with my sexual desire, though I believe in abstinence, I've had times in which I was weak and partially lost that battle. I would say my sexual desire is a good bit higher than average which makes it difficult.
Maybe I should add a things I find detestable section here:
The way corporations own governments, the status quo in general
That's it for now, though there may be a few more.