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25 Zengcheng, China Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 28
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Strictly vegan
Not at all
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I love traveling, learning, outdoors, scuba diving, pool, motorcycles, fire-breathing, ballroom dancing, chan, to name a few. I have no interest in religion. I'm a gluten free vegan, and am testing the pure diet (no onions or garlic). It's very hard to get me angry, and I try to be a helpful person and I'm always seeking to better myself. I intend to live a long time and at the very least make a dent in the world around me. So I read about nutrition frequently, And though bluntly honest to the extent of occasionally sounding insulting, I am almost always friendly :)

A person must constantly internalize to create and maintain a sense of self. Else you become a mash-up of what your peers are and what society tells you to be. I travel to better understand people and life and to define myself.
I'm originally from CT, USA but not sure where I'll end up. And I'm currently in Zeng Cheng, Guangzhou, China

I'd call myself an optimalistic optimist. I try to be the best possible person I can be, and I seek someone who is likewise. So I befriend many really amazing people, but I'm not a fan of the idea of moderation, because it's basically an excuse for apathy. So if moderation is something you're into then we're definitely not relationship compatible. I don't mean to say I'm by any means perfect, I have many flaws just like everyone but I constantly try to be better.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am now teaching English to kids in China.

learning, planning, loving :)

setting my life up to become the man I want to be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Traveling on a budget, Doing what I say I will
The first things people usually notice about me
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calm/ friendly composure, I try to be open to new people/ things
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Gift of Fear, How and When to be Your Own Doctor, Atlas Shrugged

Movies: Stardust, Ip Man, Instinct, The Sum of All Fears, to name a few

Shows: Person of Interest, Mentalist, Naruto

Music: Taylor Swift, Plumb, Lindsey Stirling, Enya

Heart of the Lamp (bridge)
You and I
We can start a fire of love
When we're together,
We're brighter than a million stars
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
air, water, calories, senses, communication, companionship
I'm just in a literal mood
glasses, passport, rope, clothing, friends and family
slightly less literal of a mood
desserts, gambling, beautiful women, world traveling, money, wisdom
just to be ridiculous, arguably my addictions
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I need to do today and tomorrow and the next 3 months to progress through life and grow in a manner I desire
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating vegan sushi, I can't read chinese or speak with most people so vegan sushi is my only option in ZengCheng that I know of at the moment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a monster, but aren't we all. The difference between those who do terrible things and those who don't is the environment someone grows up in. I am open about who I am and am not in denial about anything I am. We all hate things through own own perception of right and wrong. All hatred in us is the same simply vented to different areas, one of the main differences is that the bad guys accept what they are. While most people will try and avoid things not accepted by society as good/decent.

I wonder if I may scare some people by this, I'm a rather friendly and often quite childish, and I very much dislike violence. But if peace is to be achieved for the world someday we can't shut people out because they are bad or evil, we are all created by the causes and conditions, people with lacking moral understanding were unlucky in their upbringing but are just as capable people. I live in many ways with black and white views but that isn't to say I don't see where had things happened differently in my life I would've been a bad person myself. The only differences between any two people is the environment they were born into and the family's dietary history.

Also I struggle with my sexual desire, though I believe in abstinence, I've had times in which I was weak and lost that battle. I would say my sexual desire is a good bit higher than average which makes it difficult.
You should message me if
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You've done a lot of traveling and care to share about awesome places. You match me amazingly well in the questions, If you have any questions you'd like to ask me. I am very particular in what I'm looking for (If we're more than 6% enemy then we're not relationship compatible) so its very possible I give a polite no to any interest in being more than friends, but I'll talk to just about anyone that wants to. :) Well except maybe gay guys that would make me feel a little weird, not to be offensive. That being said if we have a rather large percent enemy then it is up to you to start a conversation, I'm not going to put time into responding to a hi, or hello when we're not a very good match. I'll just say hi/hello back to you.