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23 Rochester, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:07pm
Bisexual, Heteroflexible, Pansexual, Sapiosexual
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body type
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Russian (Okay), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's see.. I'm 23, youngest of four. I love movies with a passion, been known to play a game or two, occasionally like to swing (dance, you fool!). I'm stubborn with some things, easy going with others. I'm a moral relativist. I fall fast and hard, and recover slow. I'm a hopeless romantic. Sometimes I worry that I approach certain aspects of my life too clinically. But I'm getting better.
I'm often thought to be out a little weird due to an increasingly bizarre sense of humor and mannerisms. There are times I seem to not care, these are often the times I care the most.
I'm weird, and kind of hard to deal with sometimes, but the people who put up with me tend to like me quite a bit. No accounting for some people's taste, right?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a student at RIT for computing security. Hooray grad program.. It's a good time. Spend most of my spare time watching films, monkeying around, trying to figure out my place in life, and being in the tail end of yet another phase of a car restoration.
Really ought to get out more, but duty calls.
And I just really need someone to kick me in the ass and drag me out.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
How do you decide what you're good at? Can you really trust yourself, a biased source, to provide an accurate and honest answer?
I could think I'm ace at something, just to find out I'm actually rubbish.
I like to think I've a bit of a knack for making people laugh, especially defusing tense situations with humor and a little self-deprecation. I know my way around a wrench as well as around a keyboard, and I do love bombing mountains when I get the chance. No XC for me!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Realistically, I've no idea. I haven't ever really asked anyone before, it seems like a weird question. "HEY, YOU! What was the first thing you noticed about me, beyond me yelling at you?" I've been told my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh god, don't get me started.

Books of all kinds, especially fiction.
Hitchhiker's Guide, Song of Fire & Ice, the Wheel of Time, Gaunt's Ghosts, anything by R.A Salvatore.
Self-help books are good for a laugh, but better when they work.
American Gods, I'm on pins and needles with the realization that there'll be a sequel.
Occasionally you'll see me reading some sort of tech manual, and by occasionally I mean all the time cause I can't escape from my field. >.br />
I'll watch just about any sort of film, and walk away enjoying something about it.
I'm super partial to spaghetti westerns cause, come on, who doesn't love a little Eastwood, or Elliot, or something?
War movies are fantastic, for obvious reasons.
Anything cerebral produced by Christopher Nolan is ace in my book.

I can appreciate most kinds of music from blues to metal.
There's a song for every occasion, I like to think.
Smooth jazz for mellowing down, classical for writing, speed metal for getting amped up!

I LOVE FOOD. I'll eat damn near anything.
It's been joked that my stomach is a black hole. I don't think it's funny, NASA is upset that they've lost three rovers this week..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) People to wile away the hours with.
2) Those people you can't pick, but are supposed to be close to. What are they called? Family?
3) My El Camino, the love, and bane, of my existence.
4) Films, shows. Really any type of media that can tell a good story that I can wrap myself up in to forget about the world for a while.
5) The lingering sense that I'm forgetting something..what was that..
6) That grey, squishy organ in my skull.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe, and Everything.
My place in the world and how it always seems to change right around the time that I get the hang of it.
The futility of it all, right up until the Cthulu slippers go on.
How heartbreaking it is that David Tenant is no longer the Doctor.
That I walk through shoes way too quickly.
That sometimes I feel like my head is on crooked.
That cats are overrated, and small rodents are underrated.
That I'll probably never finish putting my car back together.
That I have too much time on my hands, when I usually don't.
That I'm hungry right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing games if I can be arsed to find something appealing, watching movies with anyone walking through the house, hanging out.
I'm a bit of a shut in at times with all of the work I'm doing (comes with grad program territory), but I'm always up for being "dragged" out somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
....I honestly have no clue. I'm not that private.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Just do it, you know you want to.
In all reality, I'd be happy with any messages.
I long for human connection, and relationships of any sort. Although that sounds rather desperate or needy..
I've just recently let the notion sink in that human beings aren't really meant to be entirely alone, regardless of how much I rail against the idea.