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27 Buffalo, NY Genderqueer, Genderfluid, Woman

Genderqueer, Genderfluid, Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 28
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Agnosticism and it’s important
High school
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Dun Dun Dun... the daunting task of filling out an about me section. Well, I'm very high energy and inquisitive. I love meeting new people and getting to know them. Please actually read my profile, I take the time to read yours entirely.

I go through periods of always being on the go and gladly being kidnapped by friends for random adventures, like an impromptu table top game, or going to another state in the middle of the night just because.

I enjoy a good verbal sparring with the right people and thought provoking conversations like Why isn't 11 pronounced onety one? and What is the difference between living and existing?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At the moment, I'm doing all I can to have fun with my life while taking care of my responsibilities.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being awesome of course, but I'm sure you're looking for specifics. I am particularly good at cooking, and being detail oriented. I've been referred to as being a great amateur shrink/ emotional scratching post, so I'll take that as being a great listener and friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Unfortunately and fortunately after doing a quick poll of my friends, who all met me at a larp event, the first thing physically they typically noticed about me was a trick I do with squeaky toys in my bra.

Personality wise, that I'm immensely cheerful and upbeat to the point of being almost cartoon like.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have so many favorites in all of these things.

Books: My favorite genre is urban fantasy. Dresden Files by Jim Butcher, The Iron Druid series by Kevin Hearne. The Mercy Thompson series by Patrica Briggs. I also like medieval fantasy as well, and thoroughly enjoy anything written by Tamora Pierce.

Movies: I love Kevin Smith and all of his movies, even his crappy ones, like Jersey Girl. My favorite of his movies though is Chasing Amy. The Big Lebowski is another favorite, as are all of the Die Hard movies. My girly side though has a soft spot for the classic animated Disney movies.

TV: This is where my geek flag flies the most I think. I'm a huge fan of Doctor Who and it's wibbley wobbley-ness. Supernatural is another show I enjoy very much. The secret password is "Camarilla." I devoured Firefly insanely quickly and still weep at it's cancellation. I adore Leverage as well. Pretty much give me anything with Mark Sheppard in it apparently.

Music: I grew up listening to my dad's favorites in classic rock and came into my own tastes with music at the turn of the millennium. Because of this, I enjoy a wide variety of stuff like Johnny Cash, Supertramp, Canned Heat, The Toyes, Tom Waits, Lyle Lovett to Nsync, P!nk, Flogging Molly, John Mayer, Everclear, Third Eye Blind and more.

Food: I love home cooked meals and cooking them as well for my friends. Homemade chicken nuggets, spaghetti sauce from scratch, pan fried pork chops, various baked goods and such make their way frequently through my kitchen and into my friends' stomachs. Guilty pleasure foods of mine are tortilla chips and queso sauce, Mountain Dew, sushi, and the occasional Burger King.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet. I'm always not far from it at any point, whether it's my laptop or my phone.

Speaking of, I am happily addicted to my laptop and phone.

Cliche, but true, my friends and family.

Caffeine so I can be around my family and friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Advice to give my friends if and when they come to me about what's going on in their lives.

If crayons had genders, what would they be?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A typical Friday? What's that? Sometimes I'm spending a quiet night in before going full tilt for the rest of the weekend, or being kidnapped for some sort of shenanigans which I rarely know about more than a few hours ahead of time. Also, why restrict fun to just Fridays? There's the whole rest of the week for lots of adventures
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a bunny stuffed animal that I still sleep with if I don't have anyone to cuddle with.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you can tell me what the secret password is. Seriously, there's a password hidden in my profile. All messages without it will be laughed at and disregarded. Also if you can say something besides "Wow, you're beautiful." I know how I look, I gave plenty of material for conversation starters up top.