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DaveNJersy

36 / M / gay / Single

South Bound Brook, New Jersey

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am spontaneous, caring, and energetic.

My Self-Summary

Ugh, the dreaded essay.. Well, I'm not psycho or a stalker or anything like that. I'd like to think I'm the average nice guy next-door.. Masculine, interesting and I have a lot to offer the "right guy" whomever that might be.. lol Friends and family are the most important things in my life.

Looking for someone decent, with a good head on his shoulders. Specifically NOT looking for hookups or drama. Morals and integrity would be nice. Someone to compliment who I am. Prefer self-assured vs arrogant - it's a fine line, but there is a difference. Also prefer assertive vs aggressive. Again, same deal.

All other factors are open to consideration. This all shouldn't be too difficult

What I’m doing with my life

Recently moved back to NJ from Boston, I'm catching up and hanging out with friends. I work full-time M-F 9-5 in what is left of the mortgage industry, helping home-owners get out of high-cost loans.

I’m really good at

being a true friend, listening and making people comfortable and at ease.

The first things people usually notice about me

Hmm, i dunno.. Physically, I've gotten compliments on my eyes and my smile. Otherwise, I'd have to say my laid-back demeanor, good personality, positive attitude and lack of drama

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Crichton or Dostoevsky. Movies: too many to list, mostly comedies and/or action flix though. Music: all kinds.. really. REALLY. There's not much that I don't like. Food: LOVE Italian, but also enjoy experimenting and trying new things.

The six things I could never do without

Good friends, good times, work ethic/income, Media/internet, cel phone, my car

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I try not to think too much, but always about friends, social events and traveling. Always planning the next day-trip, weekend getaway or adventure. AND how to fit that all into whatever time-frame along with work and occasionally sleeping. lol

On a typical Friday night I am

out with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'll get back to this one... eventually...

You should message me if

You're serious about making a good friend and having good times with potential for something more long-term down the road