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21 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

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My self-summary
Hi hi. I am an eccentric, free-spirited guy who is looking to meet like-minded and unlike-minded people alike! I am here on an epic quest for friendship and love!

If I would describe myself with just 4 key defining characteristics, they would be: geeky, socially-awkward, free-spirited, and eccentric.

1) Huge geek here! I enjoy playing video games, board games, reading books, manga/anime, computer programming, math, etc.

2) I am socially-awkward in that I have had to live with crippling social anxieties, and depression for most of my life. However, I have come a very long way since then and now my main motivation in life is to find love and friendship! Still, I am horrible at small talk, I have social anxiety, inferiority complex, difficulty picking up on social cues, engage in socially inappropriate behaviour, have a tendency to get attached or detached to someone extremely quickly, and have some mild obsessive compulsive tendencies.

3) I am a free-spirit because I am really easy-going, and I just go with the flow. Almost nothing offends me unless it is intentionally hurtful, and I am very open-minded and not judgmental of others' lifestyle choices. My life goal is to just be as happy as possible, but not at the expense of others.

4) The eccentricities of my personality are numerous. People have described me as "weird", "nutty", "unconventional", and "unorthodox".

I never let society or my upbringing dictate to me what is right or wrong. I arrive at these conclusions myself based on rational thought. Here are a few of my worldviews:

- I am polyamorous/non-monogamous; and I support sexual freedom and expression. I believe that sexuality and love should be fluid and giving, free and uncensored, rather than based in jealousy and exclusivity, ignorance and fear.

- As an adherent to utilitarianism, I am very frugal and health-conscious; and I rarely attach sentimental value to "things" (this includes weddings, proposal rings, birthdays, good luck charms, etc).

- I speak in a very straight-forward manner, and I get to the point fast. Sometimes it makes me appear brash; but I don't fake politeness or courtesy: I say it like it is.

- My stance on morality is that it is relative, and that there is no intrinsic right or wrong. That being said, I do have a moral code and it is short and simple: "Maximize happiness, minimize suffering."
What I’m doing with my life
Going to university for Computer Science at the moment.

For fun, I geek out, as explained above, but I also like the usual generic activities: movies, TV, going out for dinner, hanging out with friends, long walks. Oh yeah I also like dancing and singing. At the club, I go crazy on the dance floor.

Don't engage in many athletic activities, but I like to swim!

I also daydream. A lot. About life, the universe, and everything.

I am also a nudist at heart, but not so much in practice due to the social stigma. I enjoy going to the nude beach during the summer though.
I’m really good at
Giving out hugs. If I really like you, I give out a great big bear hug!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
- Music: electronica and edm are my nostalgenres, but I like every music genre

- Food: try to eat healthy, and love exotic cultural food
There will always be a special place in my heart (well, stomach) for authentic Chinese food (not Westernized like Sweet and Sour chicken, but REAL Chinese like Jellyfish, Chicken Feet, Whole Fish (eyeballs too!), and Tiger Penis. Okay, I'm kidding about the Tiger Penis)

- TV: Game of Thrones (one of the most depressing series I've watched/read... I LOVE IT), Breaking Bad

- Movies: Memento, Dogville, Plague Dogs (I really like depressing movies, and mindfuck movies too--you know, the ones that make you go WTF just happened?), 2001: A Space Odyssey

- Manga/Anime/Comics: Jojo's Bizarre Adventure, Future Diary, Monster, Claymore, Liar Game, Battle Royale, Code Geass, Madoka Magika, Steins;Gate, Masturbation Master Kurosawa (no this is not a hentai), Gurren Lagann, Attack on Titan, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Watchmen

- Games: Every Valve game ever (love Dota 2), horror games, shooter games, puzzle games, even text adventures!

tl;dr I'm a geek
The six things I could never do without
1. Love
2. Love
3. Love
4. Love
5. Love
6. Love

It's all you need.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
myself. No seriously, I am constantly trying to figure out everything about myself, my identity, my views, my emotions, and how I can attain happiness in my life.

That is also why my profile is so long! Writing this profile helped me put into perspective who I am as a person.

I also think about other people too, especially in how they differ from me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a scar on my forehead. Kinda like Harry Potter.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you meet any one of these conditions:
- you thought anything that I said was interesting,
- you too feel as if you don't fit in this world,
- you think I'm weird,
- you think I'm cute,
- you just wanna say hi!