44 New York, NY
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My self-summary
Bitingly funny without being (too) mean, kind-hearted and down-to-earth guy looking for someone to share a laugh or two.

Theater and movies are great as is exploring the city by foot or by bike. I love baseball AND Broadway -- sitting on the third base-line or in prime orchestra seats sound equally fabulous to me.

I've lived in NYC for over 20 years. While I can't imagine living anywhere else, I think it's good to shake things from time to time; whether it's joining the NYC Gay Men's Chorus 13 years ago (at Mom's suggestion...really) or playing in the gay softball league, I try to do something out of my comfort zone now and then.

I would love to find someone who shares some of my interests but can also show me new and different ways to enjoy life. Basically I'm a work in progress who likes his comforts but knows there's so much more out there.

I'm a great listener so I'm not afraid of chatty people (as long as you're interesting). Quick wits and cool conversationalists jump to the front of the line.

Family and friends are the most important things to me and l'm looking for someone to bring into my circle.

The rest we can play by ear.
What I’m doing with my life
I've worked in public schools the last 8 years or so but I just started a gig working in the admissions office of a private school. Very different vibe as you can imagine but still fascinating.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh, listening, making gazpacho, making conversation, finding spelling/grammar errors in menus. I also have a mind like a steel trap -- if you tell me something, don't expect me to forget it.
The first things people usually notice about me
My glasses. My smile. That I look younger than my age.

You tell me :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
All-time favorites include: Just finished A Little Life (so powerfully written); The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay, Middlesex, Tales of the City, Tim & Pete, The Alienist, The Goldfinch, Freedom, Shakespeare, She's Come Undone, Confederacy of Dunces, Devil in the White City, Song of Solomon, And Then We Came to the End, Zeitoun, To Kill a Mockingbird, Giovanni's Room, The Living One. Always looking for a book recommendation -- suggestions always welcome.

Movies: All About Eve, 9-5, Auntie Mame, Star Wars, L.A. Confidential, Grey Gardens, Young Frankenstein, JFK, All the President's Men, The Devil Wears Prada, Waiting for Guffman, Now Voyager, Shattered Glass, documentaries

TV Shows: Orphan Black, Broadchurch, Transparent, Jessica Jones, House of Cards, Scandal, Walking Dead, Jane the Virgin, Downton Abbey, RuPaul's Drag Race, Golden Girls (always does the trick in a pinch)...damn that's a lot of tv....hmmmm

Music (in no particular order): Kylie, Madonna, Ella, Adele, Nina, Aretha, Annie Lennox, kd lang, Scissor Sisters, Mika, broadway, Robyn, Cyndi, Green Day, Heart, Queen, Michael Jackson, P!nk, Prince, Whitney.
The six things I could never do without
Humor, family, friends, honesty, air conditioning, a good cup of coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what's next.
On a typical Friday night I am
out to dinner with friends, seeing a show, or whatever it takes to decompress from a long week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a huge grammar nerd.
You should message me if
you're not afraid to write an e-mail. Please don't click the LIKE button. Chances are I won't know who's behind it. Take a chance and send a message.