Apart from that I enjoy socialising... which on here seems to be super secret special code for "getting totally pissed and waking up in a gutter".... :/ When I say socialising I mean actual conversation. I prefer pubs, I dislike clubs, and I get a lot of my social interaction at the gym which is fine by me... it's conversation with like-minded people after all.
I do NOT discuss my career until I get to know someone quite well. I'm unable to disclose a lot of things at first which unfortunately puts people off. ***Yet I still get a bazillion messages saying "lol Hi I liek ur prfile wut iz ur job lol"***
I am generally an exception to the rule (see what I did there?), I do not share many characteristics with the "typical man". You won't find me coming home stinking of carlsberg or sat on my a*** in front of the football. I'm full of suprises and very romantic. I like to treat the lady in my life very well and I am very affectionate.
I am looking for an independent, thinking, intelligent, considerate woman (with nice teeth - there's the shallow bit :)). Intelligence is a huge turn on for me, probably because it's so damn rare. Unfortunately I seem to attract air head women who are only after one night stands, which is NOT what I am looking for. The last thing I want is a materialistic, gossip-mag reading, reality-tv-watching, dribbling idiot. I once went on a date with a girl whose first question to me was "So whose side are you on? Team Andre or team Jordan??". I took an instant dislike :)
If your interests sound remotely like: "Drinkin, clubbin, and avvin a laugh" then I'd rather not hear from you, I would like someone who is doing something a little more constructive with their life rather than pissing it away :)
Oh and just another, tiny, rant... I have received a few messages from some young ladies who actually have "Tanning" listed as an interest!!!! There's nothing wrong with occasional sunbed usage but it's not a ****ing INTEREST for ****s sake!!! If that is as interesting as your life gets (along with 'avvin a larf) then please please please do not message me. I choose intelligent and interesting friends and I would not expect any less from a girlfriend.