I've tried dating someone who I could be a power-couple gay with but I think I'd be happier with someone who knows what is important in life and is willing to fight to get it. Namely family and friends. It would be great if they are passionate about what they do as well, but again I don't want someone defined by their career.
To me, being gay is only a part of who I am. I am much larger than just a gay man. I am a political junkie, tech nerd, broadway addict, aspiring chef, and baker of the world's best chocolate chip cookies, and I volunteer with LGBT organizations to try and give back as well.