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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:44pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I grew up in Utah and have spent the past 6 years in Washington DC working in tech & politics. I am moving to Oxford for my MBA on Sept 7th.

While I'll be living in a college town, I hope to spend my time finding someone I can have a long-term relationship rather than just casual dates.

To me, being gay is only a part of who I am. I am much larger than just a gay man. I am a political junkie, tech nerd, broadway addict, singer, aspiring chef, and baker of the world's best chocolate chip cookies, and I volunteer with LGBT organizations to try and give back as well.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
This year (2015) I am focusing on deepening relationships with my friends, establishing strong work/life separation (not just balance) and cooking my way through 2 cookbooks all while feeding friends on a weekly basis.

I try to workout, and often do yoga. I help friends edit their resumes and I'm always scouring the web for a cheap flight to a new locale.

Grabbing my MBA in my spare time :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My chocolate chip cookies will make you doubt your mother's baking ability (assuming I can find the right chips in the UK) ... or your money back.

Also, I am the "fun Uncle" to my 10 nephews & nieces, and like any Uncle I of course have a favorite.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically: A magazine once described me as "A 23-year-old in a French-cuff blue shirt with bold-framed glasses" but now that I had LASIK I would hope it is my smile. My friends would say it's my ass though.

Personally: I'd hope it would be my passion for life and willingness to help others.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
There are far too many to choose from and I'm not a fan of reading through lists that are too long so I shall pick only a couple.

Currently Reading: Name of the Wind, & too many textbooks
Movies: Catch Me If You Can, Auntie Mame
Broadway Shows: Next to Normal & Book of Mormon
TV Show: The West Wing, & Doctor Who
Music: Mostly alternative, with a lot of EDM, modern instrumental music, and a dash of musical theater.
Food: Thai, Greek, and Pizza
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet
A Challenge
Intelectual Stimulation
Paper books that I can write in and dog-ear.
Family & Friends
My Passport - The 2 weeks I spent without it getting my visa felt like I had lost a phantom limb
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can leave the world a better place than I found it, even in small simple ways like providing a meal for someone in need.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Prepping my Saturday dinner menu, making cookie dough, and then going out with friends to a nice restaurant, lounge bar, or apartment to be with those close to me. Oh and game nights.

Depending on how intense my week has been I'll relax by either curling up with some tea and a book (read: Netflix) or go dance my cares away.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am working on communicating my feelings openly and honestly with others. It has come a long way but it might take me a few dates to open up. Give me a shot though because I'm realizing that simply spending time talking with you isn't the same as showing that I care for you.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are fine avoiding discussing our careers for a few dates and instead focusing on who each other is, then please reach out.

If you think you can give a better massage than I can! (many have tried, only my married straight friend has succeeded).

If your cookie recipe has aided in your friend's commit patricide against their Mother's baking ability (none has succeeded here).

If you are looking to date someone long-term.