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25 Washington, DC Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:31pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's DC so I'll tell you what I do first: I am a digital salesman working with political groups. I'm looking at going to Grad school after the next cycle and if I can swing it climbing the corporate ladder at my job. I love it, they are awesome, and it will give me the freedom to peruse other things in life and have a family.

My friends think I need a political partner in crime so we could be a power-couple, but I think I'd be just as happy with someone who was passionate about something as long as they valued what was on BBC News more than what's on E! or Bravo (Let's face it, CNN is Edutainment now)

To me, being gay is only a part of who I am. I am much larger than just a gay man. I am a political junkie, tech nerd, broadway addict and I volunteer as a communications director for a faith-based LGBT organization.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work my job on a normal schedule and help out with the non-profit on the side. I workout and spend time with my friends and joined the Gay Mens Chorus of Washington. Largely I am taking things at a bit more leisurely pace than a hectic election cycle, but only barely.

Currently I am contemplating this stage in life akin to Pippin* realizing that the long ordinary life is amazing. I don't need to be a flash in the pan and "extraordinary" to have meaning and fulfillment in my life.

*The musical, but if you thought LOTR then you get bonus points too
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I make a chocolate chip cookie that would make your mother jealous and I can whip up a decent meal for sunday dinner when I get the time.

I was a national level fencer but have put up my swords for now, I know how to cut a rug on the dance floor in ballroom, swing, or at the club and I am a lifelong learner who will never stop picking up a non-fiction book on this or that.

Also, being the "fun Uncle" to my 7 nephews & nieces, and like any Uncle I of course have a favorite.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A fashion magazine once described me as "A 23-year-old in a French-cuff blue shirt with bold-framed glasses" but now that I had LASIK I would hope it is my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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There are far too many to choose from and I'm not a fan of reading through lists that are too long so I shall pick only a couple.

Currently Reading: Bossypants, & Thinking Fast and Slow
Movies: Catch Me If You Can, Count of Monte Cristo, & Love Actually
Broadway Shows: Next to Normal & Book of Mormon
TV Show: The West Wing (who in DC doesn't), Doctor Who, Downton Abbey, Scandal & Modern Family
Music: I listen to 3 types; Alternative Rock, Musicals & Mashups.
Food: Thai, Good Mexican, and Texas-style BBQ
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet
A Challenge
Intelectual Stimulation
Smart, well-directed TV shows like West Wing, Dr. Who, & Sherlock
Paper books that I can write in and dog-ear.
A family (which includes a dog)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I am going to end up with my life and how to live it well.
Also, how to better myself and the world for "What man is a man if he does not make the world a better place"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am more likely to spend a night at home than at the club but I do try to spend time at friends' homes at the occasional dinner party or game night. Occasionally I will curl up with some hot cocoa and a book* or go dance my cares away at Town or Cobalt.

*60% of the time this book is Netflix
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I struggle to communicate emotions fully with those close to me and I can come off as cold because I might not say that "I miss you and am thinking about you" to someone I haven't seen for a while. For me the fact that I am saying hello means that I care for you. It is something that I am working on, but you could think of me as Spock for a bit. Sexy, Sexy Spock!
You should message me if
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If at the end of the day you think that we could have a good chat over coffee ro dinner then reach out.

If you are educated with direction in your life or a vision of what you want to do, come find me.

Or if you think you can give a better massage than I can! (many have tried, only my married straight friend has succeeded)