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27 M Oxford, United Kingdom

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism, and very serious about it
Working on Ph.D program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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Intensely intense.

I'm a grad student in Oxford looking for a interesting and smart woman of about my own age for a relationship. Would help if she's cute too! I like to think I'm smart and hardworking, with good (or at least interesting) taste in music, films etc.

I like genuine conversation where people actually engage with what each other are saying, and talk about what their passionate about, as supposed to be boring small talk, or intellectual dick waving or hipster irony.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on my PhD in philosophy. (Although if I don't get my arse in gear fairly quickly, I'll end up getting chucked out.)
I’m really good at
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Being honest with myself and others, writing philosophy, talking about the arts.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I smart and serious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lists tell you more about a person personality here than a vague 'I like a wide variety of X' so here goes:

Books: The Brothers Karamazov
Music: Pop:
1) Beach Boys Pet Sounds
2) Nas Illmatic
3) Beatles Revolver
4) Bob Dylan Blood on the Tracks
5) Van Morrison Astral Weeks
6) Kanye West My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy
7) Beatles White Album
8) Beastie Boys Paul's Boutique
Classical: Mozart, Beethoven, The St. Matthew Passion.
Life of Oharu, Citizen Kane, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Passion of Joan of Arc, Persona, Annie Hall, This is Spinal Tap, Jules and Jim, Vertigo.

TV: The Simpsons (well, the first 8 seasons or so), The Wire, The Sopranos (All American, don't let anyone tell you British TV is better, people who say that are usually Americans who a) never watch non-trashy stuff at home and b) haven't had to actually put up with the 'entertainment' offered by bbc one on any random night).

Food: I'm very, very fond of the Szechuan beef and glass noodle broth they do at Sojo, near the train station in Oxford. When I go home to Scotland now I get cravings for it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Laptop, ipod, cd collection, mp3 collection, Norton anthology of English lit vol.2 (I did at bit of Eng Lit at undergrad and we had to buy this-Loads of great poems, Wordsworth, Keats, Yeats, Eliot etc.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The philosophy of perception. What I should be doing with my life. How awesome X piece of music I just heard is. That I should be doing more work. What's 'the point of it all' (though this emphatically isn't the kind of philosophy I do for my PhD.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In the pub talking with either other philosophy people in Oxford, or my old friends from high school when I'm at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Think I'll leave this one ;)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
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Your a woman of about my age, you live near Oxford, your honest and and you can hold an interesting conversation about art, politics, and the world around us.