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30 • New Haven, CT • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–34
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 21
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- English (Fluently), French (Okay)
A dear college friend used to say: "Never don't go." I've been trying to live my life to that standard. I believe that living entails learning, and I try to gain experiences wherever I can.
I spent some time living in West Africa as a child and the region has a very special place in my heart. French is my first language thanks to my parent's work in francophone West Africa. Unfortunately, my knowledge of the language is a little rusty because kids in Texas don't take kindly to those who speak French. I retain a soft spot for French cinema, baguettes and soft cheese. I suppose that makes me a socialist, these days.
Remaining active is very important to me. I love to be outside, especially on the water. I sail, kayak, whitewater raft, row...started rowing when I was 11 and fell in love with the sport. I haven't fallen out of love, yet! In addition, I spend a good bit of time at the gym, the rock gym, or on my bike (especially when the weather is a bit warmer). I love the concept of fitness as transport. Why run in a circle when you can run somewhere you want to go? When I can, I run or bike to work, parties, to visit friends... All you need is a backpack, a change of clothes, and the courage to ask to borrow someone's shower.
Also, I love music. It's a big part of my life, whether I'm making, listening or dancing to it. If you are creative, smart, musically minded and curious about the world, I'm sure we'll get along fine.
There are still things I have yet to try: I want to be a voice-over artist, I want to start my own business, and I want to live and work abroad at some point (maybe the foreign service, maybe corporate investigation).
But I like where I am now. New Haven's a great town.
Also: accents. I've been told my Yoda is quite good.
"Have you thought about doing radio?"
- a well-equipped kitchen
- carrot cake
The way I see it, everything is transitory. You should be prepared to lose any given thing you hold dear, because knowing that you will not always have that thing will make you appreciate it all the more. I'm just thankful for all I've been given.
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