DavidMicheal123
46 Salt Lake City, UT
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My self-summary
I am a divorced father of 15 year old son, who I seldom see. I have learned to live with the pain of my separation from him and hope to be able to have a better relationship with him in the future.

I want to have a real relationship based on mutual understanding and attraction, intelligent exchanges of ideas, shared goals and aspirations for the future. Physical attraction is important but intellect, emotional wellbeing and the ability to think are equally important.

I recently admitted to myself that I am an atheist. I was raised by very religious parents in the predominant faith here in Utah and practiced "faithfully" for most of my life. However, being an athiest is not the most interesting or even an important characteristic about my life.

If religious practice is the central focal point around which your life revolves, we would not be compatible. I have no problems with religious people and get along with everyone. If you would like to meet a really nice guy with no real vices, diseases or dozens of past relationships, I have only been with two women, both of whom I was married to, then send me a message.

I am not open to "conversion" or "reactivation" and will not respond to attempts to engage me in religious discourse.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a divorced father of 15 year old son, who I seldom see. I have learned to live with the pain of my separation from him and hope to be able to have a better relationship with him in the future.

I want to have a real relationship based on mutual understanding and attraction, intelligent exchanges of ideas, shared goals and aspirations for the future.

I recently admitted to myself that I am an atheist. I was raised by very religious parents in the predominant faith here in Utah and practiced "faithfully" for most of my life. However, being an athiest is not the most interesting or even an important characteristic about my life.

If religious practice is the central focal point around which your life revolves, we would not be compatible. However, if you would like to meet a really nice guy with no real vices, diseases or dozens of past relationships, I have only been with two women, both of whom I was married to, then send me a message.

I am not open to "conversion" or "reactivation" and will not respond to attempts to engage me in religious discourse.
I’m really good at
Thinking outside of the box, fixing things and solving problems, taking charge of situations that are seemingly out of control and being calm because I can always see the “big picture.” I earned the rank of Eagle Scout when I was a teenager and while I do not "camp," anymore, I know how to handle myself anywhere I am and the Scouting Oath and Laws go a long way in explaining what kind of man I am today.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am not like anyone they have ever met before and nothing fazes me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Candide by Voltaire. Lady Hawk, She’s Having a Baby, The Shawshank Redemption, Unforgiven, The Green Mile, Million Dollar Baby, Gran Torino, The Big Bang Theory, The Daily Show, Breaking Bad is one of the best shows I have ever seen. I do not own a TV or watch television. The shows I have watched were binge viewing sessions that I downloaded from the internet. I love classical music and Thai food; though I am omnivorous and will eat almost anything.
The six things I could never do without
My son. I will tell you privately what the rest are though I do not "own" anything I could not give up.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future and how I am making mine better or worse. How much time I wasted and wonder if the window is closed for me when it comes to finding someone.
On a typical Friday night I am
This coming year I plan on spending my Friday nights learning to ballroom dance. On occasion, I do like to enjoy a movie in the theater.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I take care of people. I was raised to love and care for my younger siblings. If you are more than 7 years younger than me, I will have a really hard time seeing you as anything other than a "little sister;" I will be very flattered by the attention you have given me and slightly embarrassed.
You should message me if
you have had a child before age 35. I am not interested in people who make drinking alcoholic beverages an important part of their lives. If you have a picture of yourself drinking alcohol that means it is an important part of your life or if you cannot go several, 3 or more, months without drinking. (I have a medical condition that makes me hyper sensitive to alcoholic beverages. Seriously, I could fall into a coma and never wake up again after one drink.) Do not contact me if you live more than 50 miles away as you might as well be on another planet. I am deathly allergic to cats, at least I was when I was young, however, I prefer small dogs as pets though, at this stage in my life, I would rather spend my effort and time with someone who can hold an intelligent conversation. If you are just divorced or separated for less than a year, give yourself some time to heal and adjust to your new life. I am only interested in serious relationships and people who have not healed or given themselves time to move on are not ready to date me. If you have a tattoo you are not necessarly a bad person just someone who has the ability to make really bad decisions; in other words, you would have to spend time convincing me that you are a changed person who would never do such a stupid thing again.
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