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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:44am
Relationship Type
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Judaism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Charismatic, positive and humorous is me, in a nutshell. I play the electric guitar (and played the violin for 13 years). I aspire to write Adam Sandler-like songs on the guitar, and just love to rock out to Weird Al Yankovic on weekends. ;-)

Some of my favorites:

-live bands / DJ sets
-The University of Wisconsin
-chairing my neighborhood's monthly Public Safety Meetings and serving on our Residents' Association's Executive Committee
-spending time with both my 10-yr-old niece & 6-yr-old nephew

*Since August 2013, I've seen Depeche Mode, Stone Temple Pilots (with Filter), Stereophonics, Pet Shop Boys, Travis, Pearl Jam (twice), Simple Minds, Fitz & The Tantrums (again, with Capital Cities), Kings of Leon, Psychedelic Furs (with The Sheila Divine), Foster The People (with St. Lucia), Morcheeba, Luscious Jackson, Everclear / Soul Asylum / Eve 6 / Spacehog, Queen + Adam Lambert, Nine Inch Nails / Soundgarden, Kings Of Leon (again), The Offspring, The Cult, Echo & The Bunnymen, Chevelle, The Dandy Warhols, Erasure, Vintage Trouble, Capital Cities (again), Sloan, Fitz & The Tantrums (again), St. Lucia (again), Billy Idol, Kongos, Bush, The Juliana Hatfield Three, Big Data, The Juliana Hatfield Three (again), Manic Street Preachers, Stone Temple Pilots (again), Faith No More, Kaiser Chiefs, Primal Scream, "Weird Al" Yankovic, Noel Gallagher's High Flying Birds, Paul Weller, Starsailor / Embrace, Bad Religion (twice), The Sheila Divine (again), Everclear (again) / Toadies / Fuel / American Hi-Fi, U2 (twice), Into Another, Foo Fighters (twice), Interpol (twice), The Smashing Pumpkins, Lenny Kravitz, Passion Pit, FFS (Franz Ferdinand + Sparks), Ride, Collective Soul, Garbage, Vintage Trouble (again) and Big Data (again).

I'll be seeing Thievery Corporation (in December), The Knocks (in January), Wilco (in January), St. Lucia (again, in February) and Super Furry Animals (in May).

I am looking for a great lady with whom to cook, see a band, travel, walk the city streets hand-in-hand and have a snowball fight (amongst a myriad of other activities).

*It would be cool if you happen to live within subway-accessible distance. It would be even cooler if when your location says "Boston," you actually DO live IN Boston.* :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
-Music: Going to shows, playing electric guitar and listening to music.

-Family: Seeing them when I can (they mostly live in the Philadelphia-area).

-Work: Legal (civil litigation).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-my Chewbacca vocal impersonation
-saying the alphabet backwards
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My positive energy, style (clothes), hair and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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-Book: The Count of Monte Cristo

-Movies: Heat, Shawshank Redemption, Return to Paradise, Alive, Dumb & Dumber, etc.

-TV Shows: Curb Your Enthusiasm, Burn Notice, NCIS, etc.

-Music: AC/DC, Black Crowes, Chemical Brothers, Depeche Mode, Echo & The Bunnymen, Foo Fighters, Green Day, Jimi Hendrix, INXS, Michael Jackson, Kings Of Leon, Led Zeppelin, Morrissey, New Order, Oasis, Pearl Jam, Queen, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Smashing Pumpkins, Travis, U2, Van Halen, Paul Weller, XTC, Neil Young, Zero 7 and TONS more.

-Food: Wild Alaskan salmon, calamari, figs, octopus, fruit and vegetable juices / fruits & veggies, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-my electric guitar
-Italian food: 18+ years of living in The North End will do that to you. 😊
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether I left the toilet seat up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I might be out for dinner/drinks, at a concert, relaxing, playing guitar, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I was 10 years old, I was in an elevator with my Dad, in Atlantic City. My Dad whispered to me that the guy standing next to us was a famous singer named Tony Bennett. Naturally, I turned to Tony and told him I loved his music and was his biggest fan.
You should message me if
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You have a strong sense of who you are, what you are about and where you want to go in life; equally enjoy going out and staying in and both upbeat and low-key leisurely activities; are bright, witty/humorous and open-minded. A killer smile makes me melt.