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Davidman4u

39 / M / straight / Single

Cologne, Germany

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.79m).
Body Type
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Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Okay), German (Fluently), French (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently)

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I am charming, passionate, and affective.

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My Self-Summary

Oh, this is boring...this kind of description never corresponds to the real person. What somebody thinks of himself is absolutely irrelevant. Imagine Adolf Hitler writing a self-summary. We would learn that he loves painting and dogs and the music of Wagner...wow, what a marvellous guy, many women would think.
But ok., I´m not him.
Once i googled for famous love quotes and i was directed to site where i found this: "Love is mostly made of curiosity". Nice! It was Giacomo Casanova who wrote it and after thinking it over I was convinced that he was right. I love people, especially women and i am very curious about them. Ok., that´s why i´m here. And what about details? I love movies, music, books (very important) and all kinds of activities that do not end up in boreness: photography, restaurants, travelling and falling in love (when it happens). The rest is filled with dreams and hopes.

What I’m doing with my life

Life is doing with me ! This is a stupid question. Most people will numerate things like working, studying etc. But when you talk to them long enough they will tell you that they want to change their lives, whatever this means. So the most honest answer would probably be: I´m changing it

I’m really good at

Listening, inventing stories and jokes, whisteling (really, i can whistle Charlie Parker), cooking maybe

The first things people usually notice about me

No idea, maybe that i should buy a new shaver sometimes. Otherwise probably my kindness.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A lot of them: I love "To Kill A Mockingbird", "The great Gatsby", "Midnight's Children",the books of Philip Roth, Joseph Roth, D.H Lawrence and other classics. Actually in the last months i became a fan of Michael Conelly, yes, just an bestselling thriller writer, but i love him...got to get thrills in life somewhere.
Movies: This is my playground...Truffaut said once: Who loves movies loves life...that´s it. Besides, if you want to know if somebody loves movies, ask him about old black and white movies. When the answer is negative you know that this person doesn´t really care about movies. Loving Brad Pitt doesn´t make you a lover of the seventh art.
What about music? I love madly Musica Popular Brasileira (MPB), Bossa Nova, Jazz ( the good old Bill Evans and others)), Classical sometimes, Opera sometimes, R&B
Good food is like good sex, sometimes better. I love everything from italian to turkish or lebanese...

The six things I could never do without

Does this mean, that without having these things we die? Oh, I hope that I will never be sentenced to prison:
Going to bed very late
Chocolate
Looking at romantic sundowns
Movies
Books
Taxi

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life...it´s always about life and existential questions. On the other hand real thinking produces life, it´s not just a biological state. I avoid thinking too long about how to resolve practical problems, this is the kind of thinking that leads to despair.

On a typical Friday night I am

Enthusiastic, but only in the beginning. I love to have some phone conversations with my friends and then to watch a good movie or going out for a walk or for dinner.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I love to smell a woman´s hair, Ok., i think this doesn´t make me a pervert and I´m not working in the shampoo industry neither. There are no private things in times of the internet. When you show your photo to strangers, tell them what you eat or when you love to have sex you are exposing yourself. But it´s ok., by that we learn that we are not as unique as we think.

You should message me if

you don´t have something better to do. Stupid answer, i know, but in fact nobody SHOULD message me, but it could be interesting for both..and remember: Life is made of encounters that can determine the future course of our life. This sounds more dramatic than it is, but it´s true, it happened in my life several times. One moment you are stuck in a dusty 1 room apartment in Paris, the other you find yourself with a wonderful person drinking Caipirinha at Ipenema beach in Rio. And it all started one October night in Paris with a simple question: "Do you like the books of Raymond Chandler?"
Yes, sometimes movies are imitating life.

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