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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24-41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Nov 19
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Buddhism but it’s not important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English, German (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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After spending the last 12 or so years living in or traveling to San Francisco, Oakland, London, Paris, New Orleans, Mississippi, Botswana, Rio, Salvador de Bahia, Zimbabwe, and South Africa I've decided to return to my home state of Pennsylvania to finish my media studies degree and be closer to my Mom for a while. I also work as a research analyst for a labor union. Who knows where I'll end up next? Teaching English in Japan, or back to the Bay to attend grad school, or New Orleans to study piano and write that book I've been putting off. There are no mistakes or wrong decisions. Only experiences. I'm as comfortable in an underground speakeasy as I am in the theater. I'm a writer and musician by trade, and as such I am comfortable with people from all walks of life, from boxers to bishops. I'm honest. I enjoy a good laugh or a night out on the town, but I'm just as comfortable staying home in pajamas and watching Netflix. I love my bicycle, and the BBC, and I'm a big fan of the Oxford comma.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making music, trying to enjoy my life, traveling.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my sense of humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Duke Ellington,Sherlock (BBC), James Blake, Jorge Luis Borges, Tim Maia, Wilson Simonal, Seu Jorge, Ghostpoet, Pablo Neruda, In The Time of The Butterflies, John Coltrane, Hanni El Khatib, all kinds of Garage Rock from the Sonics to The White Stripes, Hayao Miyazaki, Frank McCourt, Kurosawa, Cuaron, Almodovar, Miles Davis, Dilla, Cinema Paradiso, Pete Rock, Thelonious Monk, Chester Himes, Walter Mosely, Nikki Giovanni, James Baldwin, Big Trouble in Little China, Hector Lavoe, Death, Mos Def, Annie Hall, Spaulding Gray, August Wilson, Nina Simone, Bjork, Robert Glasper, Flying Lotus, Little Dragon, Thundercat, Georgia Anne Muldrow, Jean Luc Godard, A Touch of Evil, Muhammad Ali and the Spirit of the Sixties, Maria Callas, Freddie Hubbard, John Coltrane, Ella Fitzgerald, The Doors, The Beatles, Etta James, Walter Mosley, Dashiell Hammett, James Baldwin, Steven Soderberg, Siddhartha, On the Road, The Dharma Bums, Carl Sagan, Radiohead, Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Oh, and comic books.

Food: Ethiopian, Brazilian, Soul food (but that stuff will kill ya baby!), REAL Italian food, Mexican (not a lot of good Mexican on the East Coast unfortunately), Spanish, Korean and Japanese. Me and food are like THIS son!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My passport
My Fender Rhodes electric piano
My glasses
My Macbook
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
About leaving the country (Back to London or France, maybe Barcelona!)
Making music
Literature and art and film and music and how they all connect...
Cold rocking mics. It's what I do best.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Listening to live music, at a restaurant eating dinner, at a play, a dive bar, playing a show with my band, a gallery opening, a boxing match, a book reading, at a club dancing and listening to a dj, sitting outside at a cafe drinking wine and watching people,or in the crib chilling watching old movies on Netflix or writing a song or rehearsing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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if I admit it it would no longer be private, thereby defeating the whole purpose. plus, a little mystery goes a long way.
You should message me if
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u can hold a conversation.