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33 M Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a real person, with imperfections. I'm warm, fuzzy, well-educated, and considerate--but I judge myself very harshly.

Anyway, I'm fun to be around and that's what's important.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Building out a semi-legal artist loft in the middle of Little Tokyo. It'll have a piano, my synthesizers, and tools for crafts, painting, and clothing design.

Have a full time day job that I love, too, no problems there.

Leaving OKC at the end of September. It's an engine that drinks hope and pumps out despair, while selling anti-depressant drugs and meals-for-one just a banner click away.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
physical humor
handyman stuff
singing and harmonizing in Japanese
making the quiet one at the party feel interesting
listening without judgement
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Eckhart Tolle, Yogananda, Emerson, David Deida, Mantak Chia, Julia Cameron, Marshall McLuhan, Japanese magazines like Tokyo Graffiti, KERA, and FRUiTS

adventure, documentary (especially history, religion, engineering, society, travel, culture, music), awkward-situation comedy, Best in Show, Wet Hot American Summer, TRON (1982), Indiana Jones, classic Bond, Helvetica, Akira, Dogtown and Z-Boys (the doc)

British humour (The Office, PEEP SHOW, Mighty Boosh), reality shows about changing your life for the better, World's Strictest Parents, Arrested Development, Parks and Rec, The Wire, TED Talks

Peter Max, Kandinsky, Mucha, Maxfield Parrish, Lisa Frank (don't hate, I know you're down with purple metallic zebra-corns), I am especially stimulated by compounded retro style (2000s looking at the 80s looking at the 50s, or 2010s looking at the 90s looking at the 40s and 70s)

funky, moody, peaceful, hopeful, soundtrack, piano solo, techno, funky house, (a couple all time faves: Perfume, 小室哲哉, カジ・ヒデキ, YMO, Jeff Lorber, MJ, Smashing Pumpkins, NIN, DEVO, Beatles, Beach Boys, motown, Earth Wind & Fire, Chic, anything involving Thomas Bangalter). Have always had a thing for sassy basslines from the likes of Chic, George Duke, The Whispers, etc. I like driving to country music if it's got a great lyric. And my new obsession:

If I could split my life between the Middle East and The Malay Peninsula, I think I'd be set. Anytime an establishment makes their own fish and chips or root beer, I *have* to try it. I was brought up unintentionally macrobiotic - so it has a special place in my heart. Oh yeah, I love stuff like this:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
♩ The sense of underlying contentment that comes from regular meditation.
♩♪ Letting deep beats, sexy basslines and sassy chords hijack my body (dancefloor, sidewalk, in my room...doesn't matter)
♫♪ Hopping on a train and feasting on the silent melancholia that saturates the bleak urban railway corridors
♬♩♪ Getting lost in the joy of composing/performing music
♬♪♫ Daily exercise
♪♩♪♫♩ The flicker of golden ginkgo, poplar, or cottonwood leaves against a bright blue sky; instant contentment!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
• how to stay debt free and steadily build wealth while retaining integrity
• why the younger generation is so terrified of sincerity
• how to best integrate myself into my community in terms of creative relationships, and contribution to local culture
• the subtle connection between travel, romance, adventure, and longing
• how to manage sexual energy -- specifically through Taoist body practices of cultivation, transmutation, and exchange.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a typical Friday night, WE are sitting together at our small, candlelit table. The rich incense and my warm humor melts away the stresses of the week. My eyes smile as you place a wooden bowl of sliced avocado, sea salt, black sesame seeds, organic brown rice and black beans. As a peaceful vinyl record crackles and croons, we enjoy our humble, healthy providence, laughing and listening intimately to eachother. The cold moon steadily journeys its arc across the field of endless stars. It watches over our warm home throughout the night as I worship your body temple until we are both full to the brim with love, flowing over, glowing, circulating.
You should message me if
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- you like receiving replies that are respectful, sincere, straightforward, and guaranteed (imagine that!)

- you are ready to share and be real, as I always am.

- you don't align yourself with any of these deal-breakers: militant atheism, literal interpretation of the Bible, use of synthetic drugs

- you tend to gravitate toward artists and independent thinker types; ya know--weed-smoking theists, queer republicans, principled anarchist peaceniks, homeschooling off-gridders, reiki goddesses

- you're interested in becoming friends based on a common interest in: house music, sassy basslines, harajuku, organic/healthy living, J-pop, K-pop, anime, cosplay photography, fashion, design, nature, naturism, crafting, building, biking, synthesizers, technologically enhanced art like projection mapping, meditation, yoga (as a meditative/self-loving act)

- Lastly, I am looking for an exclusive, monogamous relationship with a woman - but I don't self-identify as "straight" - that's a box I refuse to stand in. Please inquire for more details and if you opt out, I won't be offended in the least, but at least be civil and say bye.

Thanks for stopping by! = )