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24 M Bayonne, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:54am
Asian, Pacific Islander, White
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Hey! I'm curious about most of everything. Usually art and ideas, sometimes people, always food, but never ideas about turning people into food.

...maybe not the best joke to start out with.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a sort of TA in an elementary school and I really wish I could just do this forever. Not too many other jobs involve entire rooms of little people excitedly running to hug you when you enter.

In the meanwhile, I'm finishing a double major (English+film) and a double minor (secondary education+philosophy).
I’m really good at
reciting rap songs most people forgot about.
staring contests with the abyss.
getting lost in the city.

Also, I sometimes play chess by myself, but I often forget whose turn it is. Like, I know it's ME, but which me? And then that usually spirals into "What is the self anyways? How does it relate to reality? Is there such a thing as reality?"

And then I walk away from the board, completely forgetting about the game.
The first things people usually notice about me
Ambiguous ethnicity.
Thousand yard stare.
Circles 'round my eyes.
I ask a lot of questions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This list is too long, but I was especially interested in the Renaissance and Victorian era texts. I've also just finished Murakami's Kafka on the Shore and I'm working on Capote's In Cold Blood now.

I tend to gravitate towards horror, animation, or things with surreal imagery. Stuff by Welles, Kubrick, Coppola, Gaspar Noe, Frankenheimer, Croenberg, Kurosawa, Lynch, Fellini, Woody Allen, Satoshi Kon, Miyazaki, the Coen brothers, Tarkovsky, Wong Kar Wai, Park Chan Wook, and too many others.

Breaking Bad, Sherlock, Wilfred, Dexter, Twin Peaks, Evangelion, Adventure time, and pretty much any 90's cartoon/music video.

I have a special soft spot for ambience and contemporary classic. Sometimes it's indie stuff like Beirut, Sufjan Stevens, and Sigur Ros, and sometimes it's hip hop like Kanye, Nujabes, Wu-Tang Clan and such. Also jazz, swing, and bossa nova. Also also: jpop. Not even embarrassed about it.

Coffee. Because of how much I drink, I've been likened to Agent Cooper from Twin Peaks, except I'm not an agent and my name's not Cooper.

Actually, I've cut myself off of it in place of tea, but I still love it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Bulldogs. The squished in faces are adorable and their snores are the most oddly relaxing thing to me. Same thing goes for pugs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out at the cluuub! Except not really. I'm a homebody who likes quiet nights in with movies and videogames. I think the last time I was out at something big and social I ended up looking like this:
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm the kind of person who'll go into the bathroom intending to brush my teeth, only to spend a good half hour making funny faces in front of the mirror. See: the chess example.

Also, I shot the sheriff, but I swear I didn't shoot the deputy. Who shot that guy anyways? And what about the guy in Reno? Gosh, this world is so violent.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you're someone who can.

also, if you're someone who would appreciate the amount of kisses I give-it's overbearing for some and endearing to others.

bonus points if you can teach me how to dougie.