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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Today – 11:22am
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Has cats
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a graphic designer/artist and musician/singer living in the Cape Town area. I am the front-man in an industrial band, I work at an e-learning company as a day-job and I freelance afterhours when the time allows it.

I am soft spoken, shy and marginally introverted, but once I become a friend I try to be the best one I can possibly be.

Let's just say I would prefer a night in over a night of club-hopping any day.

I am willing to admit that I may not be the world's most amazing person, as most of these self-summary sections would have you believe. I have many a fault, but I try
What I’m doing with my life
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Freelance design/digital art.
Music writing/composition.
Planning and plotting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Musical composition.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You know what? I have absolutely no idea what to put here. Probably something like "Fuck me, why is this dude so quiet?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Stephen King, Terry Pratchet, HP Lovecraft, Isaac Asimov, Phillip K Dick, Harlon Ellison, Neil Gaiman, Edgar Allan Poe, William Gibson.

Games: Dark Souls!!! Oh, and Mass Effect, Dead Space, Amnesia, any open world exploration game (except for the GTA series, never seen what the big fuss was over them), Metro 2033 and Last Light, Bioshock series, Hotline Miami, Deus Ex series, Silent Hill (or any decent survival horror game for that matter), Dear Esther, Outlast, and any indie-developed gems out there.

Movies: Sunshine, Event Horizon, American Psycho, The Thing, Session 9, TRON: Legacy, Blade Runner, Akira, Videodrome, Stalker, Lost Highway, Mulholland Drive, Enemy, The Shining, In The Mouth Of Madness, Phantasm, there are too many to put here. I would be here all day.

Science fiction, horror, psychological thriller are some of my favourites.

Music: Depeche Mode, Rammstein, Diary Of Dreams, Assemblage 23, Diorama, Gary Numan, Shining, Wolves In The Throne Room, Woods Of Desolation, Front Line Assembly, Imperative Reaction, Lifelover, Deine Lakaien, Sisters Of Mercy, Sigur Ros.

Series: Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares, True Detective, The IT Crowd, Black Books, Monty Python's Flying Circus, Father Ted, 15 Storeys High, American Horror Story, The X-Files.

Food: Sushi, Italian, Indian, Thai, Mexican.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet.
Good food.
A computer.
A car.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future and what to do about it.
The music in my head.
The words being sung in my head.
The images in my head.

The ever-present fantasy of escaping this life and becoming someone new.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with a small group of friends or watching some films. Low-key Fridays are the way to go. Occasionally I will be out watching some local bands performing in the Cape Town area, but this happens very rarely. A chilled night in after a week of work is good enough for me. Recently Friday nights have been spent in Lordran, with Dark Souls handing my ass to me on a platter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have some pretty stupid phobias, including one of snails and slugs.

And I have owned some highly questionable CDs in my past.

That is all you are getting here. Move along.
You should message me if
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If you want to, really. I don't bite under most circumstances.

You have a geeky disposition.

If you're looking for someone to share you love of horror with.