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22 M Fayetteville, AR

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 20–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 29
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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if I didn’t have so much of this life all wrong
I would have gotten it right by now.

I aspire to live passionately, but lately I haven't been doing well at that. Life has become too stagnant lately and I've become comfortable working a job. I've started getting the itch for change, to see my life take progress again. Lately, my life feels like it is centered around existing and consuming without any real objective. I want to change that.

I believe in being open and honest with my thoughts, which means being vulnerable. It's something I have worked on in my life for a while now. It's not always easy, and I don't always succeed at it, but I like what it has done in my life so far.

I have a need for more meaningful human connections. Friends to have experiences with. I suspect it's the most important step to having happiness or a meaningful existence.
It's something I'm hoping this site can help with, I want to make deep and meaningful connections with interesting people to build good friendships.

I'm not possessive. I don't wish to own or be owned by anyone. I find that each person is unique, and I find it natural for me to love multiple people at any given point. Naturally I've struggled with this; but over time I've come to find that with proper care, openness, and honesty I prefer polyamorus relationships over strictly monogamous ones.

I'm far from perfect, and I'm not looking for perfection from anyone else; I'm more interested in seeing the quirks that make someone unique and interesting. Tell me about how you got the the moment you are in right now.
What I’m doing with my life
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"Take wrong turns. Talk to strangers. Open unmarked doors. And if you see a group of people in a field, go find out what they are doing. Do things without always knowing how they'll turn out. You're curious and smart and bored, and all you see is the choice between working hard and slacking off. There are so many adventures that you miss because you're waiting to think of a plan. To find them, look for tiny interesting choices. And remember that you are always making up the future as you go." -- Randall Munroe, xkcd
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Giver [Read it or reread it, it's a great short read] The Zen and Art of Motorcycle Maintenance Ringworld[Series] A Brave New World Ender's Game Game of Thrones 1984 The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy [Series] I read a lot of Sci-fi and some non-fiction. Right now I'm picking through Reddit's top 250 list.

Movies: American Beauty Girl with the Dragon Tattoo [Original] Pi Requiem for a Dream Night of the Living Dead Day of the Dead Sunshine for a Spotless mind But I'm a Cheerleader Wristcutters Children of Men Memento Waking Life WALL-E

Music: My tastes jump around a lot, but these seem to stay pretty high on my playlist:
The Mountain Goats A Perfect Circle Bush Eels Imogen Heap The Pixies The Killers Iron & Wine Beck Blue Oyster Cult Cake The Decemberists Chevelle Chris Issak David Bowie The Shins Linkin Park Bright Eyes Massive Attack Modest Mouse Nirvana The White Stripes Oasis Orgy The Bravery [I actually decided to throw these into a Pandora station to see what would happen, it turned out awesome most of the time.]

I don't really watch TV [The commercials mess with me on a deep level] but there are a few shows that I watch or used to watch when I still had time.
Shows: Firefly Red Dwarf [bonus points for this one] The Office Star Trek Top Gear The Outer Limits The Twilight Zone Cafe Racer Wheeler Dealer

Cartoons: Morel Orel Adventure Time Dexter's laboratory Courage The Cowardly Dog Angry Beavers Samurai Jack
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to get my mind to stop thinking so much. That's when the inception starts.

Seriously, my mind is almost always working on something. I spend a lot of time working through technical problems or thinking about what's going on in my world.

Nature [Biology and outdoor activities]
Those odd little moments when you know you're alive
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I drink tea while I shower.

Asymmetrical cars piss me right off. I'm looking at you, Nissan Cube.

I have backup sunglasses for my backup sunglasses.

I struggle with being an introvert; and so my friendships, the ones that last, are few and intense.

I'm pansexual to the point that I value gender in the same sort of way that I value eye color. I'm much more interested in knowing a person for who they are rather than what they are.
You should message me if
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you feel like we have the potential to build a good connection. I like when someone has the confidence to message me first, so I don't always play into that custom of men always making first contact.

Things are still a bit raw for me after a recent break up, but I feel like now would be a great time to find more friends. I still need time to process the last few months before getting serious about anything. I want to say that I'm ready to get back into dating, but I don't like the idea of trying to find love before I've become okay with being alone again. Funny how that shit works.