Find better matches with our advanced matching system
21 • M • Fayetteville, AR
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 9:15am
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Trying to quit
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from two-year college
- Science / Engineering
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)
I feel like I'm good at making connections. I have a lot of empathy, and so it's hard for me to be unkind to someone. I hold a love for people in general, and sometimes it even carries over when they cut me off in traffic. I'm a fan of random acts of kindness and paying forward. When I was more naive this got me into trouble, but I've learned more from my mistakes than I'd ever know otherwise. Those mistakes have made me who I am, and I like who I am.
I'm under the impression that I smile when I'm a bit nervous.
Movies: American Beauty Girl with the Dragon Tattoo [Original] Pi Requiem for a Dream Night of the Living Dead Day of the Dead Sunshine for a Spotless mind But I'm a Cheerleader Wristcutters Children of Men Memento Waking Life WALL-E
Music: My tastes jump around a lot, but these seem to stay pretty high on my playlist:
The Mountain Goats A Perfect Circle Bush Eels Imogen Heap The Pixies The Killers Iron & Wine Beck Blue Oyster Cult Cake The Decemberists Chevelle Chris Issak David Bowie The Shins Linkin Park Bright Eyes Massive Attack Modest Mouse Nirvana The White Stripes Oasis Orgy The Bravery [I actually decided to throw these into a Pandora station to see what would happen, it turned out awesome most of the time.]
I don't really watch TV [The commercials mess with me on a deep level] but there are a few shows that I watch or used to watch when I still had time.
Shows: Firefly Red Dwarf [bonus points for this one] The Office Star Trek Top Gear The Outer Limits The Twilight Zone Cafe Racer Wheeler Dealer
Cartoons: Morel Orel Adventure Time Dexter's laboratory Courage The Cowardly Dog Angry Beavers Samurai Jack
The friends and family that have always been there for me. Over the past few months I have come to realize just how valuable these human connections are.
Being able to escape to the forests to find some solitude from my busy life. It's where I feel like I can hear again, without all the noise from the city.
My troubleshooting and problem solving skills that allow me to see into machines and find the best way to fix them. It is the reason I am as good with machines as I am, and the reason I have come as far in life as I have.
My favorite Asian market, because I'm pretty sure I would starve without instant noodles and good coffee.
Seriously, my mind is almost always working on something. I spend a lot of time working through technical problems or thinking about what's going on in my world.
Nature [Biology and outdoor activities]
Those odd little moments when you know you're alive
Asymmetrical cars piss me right off. I'm looking at you, Nissan Cube.
I have backup sunglasses for my backup sunglasses.
I struggle with being an introvert; and so my friendships, the ones that last, are few and intense.
When it comes to dating, gender is less relevant to me than if I really connect with that person.
- Guys and girls who like bi guys
- Ages 20–34
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
Things are still a bit raw for me after a recent break up, but I feel like now would be a great time to find more friends. I still need time to process the last few months before getting serious about anything. I want to say that I'm ready to get back into dating, but I don't like the idea of trying to find love before I've become okay with being alone again. Funny how that shit works.
Connect your existing OkCupid account
Restore your account to continue meeting new people.
Reset your password
We’ll email you a link to reset it.
An email is on its way to you. If you don’t see it, try checking your Spam folder.