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21 M Fayetteville, AR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:15am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm looking to meet new people and build more friendships.
What I’m doing with my life
"Take wrong turns. Talk to strangers. Open unmarked doors. And if you see a group of people in a field, go find out what they are doing. Do things without always knowing how they'll turn out. You're curious and smart and bored, and all you see is the choice between working hard and slacking off. There are so many adventures that you miss because you're waiting to think of a plan. To find them, look for tiny interesting choices. And remember that you are always making up the future as you go." -- Randall Munroe, xkcd
I’m really good at
I enjoy working on machines, and so over the years I was always tinkering on them. They speak to me in a sense, when I look into a machine I focus my mind like a scalpel that I use to understand how it works and why. I've been lucky enough to get a chance to use my mechanical, electronic, and IT skills in my career as a technician.

I feel like I'm good at making connections. I have a lot of empathy, and so it's hard for me to be unkind to someone. I hold a love for people in general, and sometimes it even carries over when they cut me off in traffic. I'm a fan of random acts of kindness and paying forward. When I was more naive this got me into trouble, but I've learned more from my mistakes than I'd ever know otherwise. Those mistakes have made me who I am, and I like who I am.
The first things people usually notice about me
I can be a bit eccentric, and I often talk to myself and pace while I'm thinking.

I'm under the impression that I smile when I'm a bit nervous.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Giver [Read it or reread it, it's a great short read] The Zen and Art of Motorcycle Maintenance Ringworld[Series] A Brave New World Ender's Game Game of Thrones 1984 The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy [Series] I read a lot of Sci-fi and some non-fiction. Right now I'm picking through Reddit's top 250 list.

Movies: American Beauty Girl with the Dragon Tattoo [Original] Pi Requiem for a Dream Night of the Living Dead Day of the Dead Sunshine for a Spotless mind But I'm a Cheerleader Wristcutters Children of Men Memento Waking Life WALL-E

Music: My tastes jump around a lot, but these seem to stay pretty high on my playlist:
The Mountain Goats A Perfect Circle Bush Eels Imogen Heap The Pixies The Killers Iron & Wine Beck Blue Oyster Cult Cake The Decemberists Chevelle Chris Issak David Bowie The Shins Linkin Park Bright Eyes Massive Attack Modest Mouse Nirvana The White Stripes Oasis Orgy The Bravery [I actually decided to throw these into a Pandora station to see what would happen, it turned out awesome most of the time.]

I don't really watch TV [The commercials mess with me on a deep level] but there are a few shows that I watch or used to watch when I still had time.
Shows: Firefly Red Dwarf [bonus points for this one] The Office Star Trek Top Gear The Outer Limits The Twilight Zone Cafe Racer Wheeler Dealer

Cartoons: Morel Orel Adventure Time Dexter's laboratory Courage The Cowardly Dog Angry Beavers Samurai Jack
The six things I could never do without
The time I spend with my kids when I take them to a park or library. Seeing them is one of those things that pushes me to get through the week.

The friends and family that have always been there for me. Over the past few months I have come to realize just how valuable these human connections are.

Being able to escape to the forests to find some solitude from my busy life. It's where I feel like I can hear again, without all the noise from the city.

My troubleshooting and problem solving skills that allow me to see into machines and find the best way to fix them. It is the reason I am as good with machines as I am, and the reason I have come as far in life as I have.

My favorite Asian market, because I'm pretty sure I would starve without instant noodles and good coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to get my mind to stop thinking so much. That's when the inception starts.

Seriously, my mind is almost always working on something. I spend a lot of time working through technical problems or thinking about what's going on in my world.

Nature [Biology and outdoor activities]
Those odd little moments when you know you're alive
On a typical Friday night I am
reading, spending time in the woods, or working on a Volkswagon.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I drink tea while I shower.

Asymmetrical cars piss me right off. I'm looking at you, Nissan Cube.

I have backup sunglasses for my backup sunglasses.

I struggle with being an introvert; and so my friendships, the ones that last, are few and intense.

When it comes to dating, gender is less relevant to me than if I really connect with that person.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 20–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you feel like we have the potential to build a good connection. I like when someone has the confidence to message me first, so I don't always play into that custom of men always making first contact.

Things are still a bit raw for me after a recent break up, but I feel like now would be a great time to find more friends. I still need time to process the last few months before getting serious about anything. I want to say that I'm ready to get back into dating, but I don't like the idea of trying to find love before I've become okay with being alone again. Funny how that shit works.