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DeanLA

45 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:00am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly), Latin (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I grew up thinking that my life was completely unique (adopted at three weeks, met both my birth parents, raised in Missouri, lived in Europe) - but know better now that I am a bit older. Still a unique guy in that I possess an interesting blend of depth and talent that is somewhat blocked by a habit of accepting the ordinary due to a lack of worthy partners in crime.

Looking for the right guy who is truly open to a relationship/partnership. I am learning to be vulnerable and to accept help from others.

Tend to go for guys taller than me, masculine fellas. Smart and kind. Sexy is subjective. Love the smart, inked up dot.com/artistic type as well as the unexpected type guys who have a surprising contradiction hidden beneath the surface.

artist/explorer. road trip fan....ready for vegas anytime (something about all that light in the middle of a desert, the constant flow, the sunshine, the bells and whistles). family guy, deeply curious, pop culture lover, architecture fan. traveler. don't apologize for my guilty pleasures.

I am up-for-it, a thinker, and good hearted.

I am up for anything for a first date - seriously. From the ridiculously original and romantic to a chat on a bench somewhere. For me, the measure of what makes a date great is as simple as the chemistry between two guys. I do still prefer to make the match and let the face-to-face meeting be part of the fun. Much rather see your face and hear your voice as I get to know you. Love authentic connections on all levels and really try to stay away from the text messages and emails. I am the kind of man who believes in telling you when I like you, calling you instead of texting you and bravely calling a "thing" a "thing." Shorthand like, "hang" and "chill", tend to confuse me. It's ok to call it a date :)

I really believe that this process can be fun and worthwhile as long as we both promise to be honest and brave and did I mention the have fun part?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
learning, on a really deep level, the kind that comes from having your ass kicked a few times and standing back up. learning to get lazer sharp focus. letting some things in and keeping other things out. I am not embarrassed by questions. I will spend my whole life learning and exploring myself (but not in a tedious way- promise!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
smile. how easy I am to talk to. my kindness. my eyes. the other things depend on my state of dress ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
man, I will try them ALL. that said:

Un Liason Pornagraphique
Nebraska
2001 (pretty much all Kubrik)
pretty much all Malick
Hate
After Life
The Go-Getter

loved digesting Infinite Jest

Rectify
Girls
Enlightened
Looking
Veep
Portlandia
Between Two Ferns
Comedy Bang Bang
The Soup
Treme
Breaking Bad
Mad Men
Aqua Teen Hunger Force
The Brak Show
Homeland
Kid Snippets makes me laugh no matter how bad a day I've had :)
Mumford & Sons
The Devil Makes Three
Sea Wolves
Divine Comedy
Muse
Sad Brad Smith
lots of C&W
just love me some music all around
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
SEX/INTIMACY. CONNECTION. INTRIGUE. BEST FRIENDS/FAMILY. LAUGHTER. HOPE.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to keep becoming a better man. what i want out of life. how to keep my dreams alive while still applying the lessons I've learned.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Actually - saying that I am WILLING to admit something makes it seem like I am ashamed of something and I'm not. Truth isn't a matter of when to me - it's a matter of how. I fantasize about being a house husband, raising kids and constructing a home from the ground up and still acting in great movies/TV. I can be too easily seduced by aesthetics. I am kind of stumped as to why guys seem so reluctant to just let go and meet up in person.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you are serious about finding a deep meaningful relationship. If you are aware enough to own who you are while also allowing room for others to be who they are. Are comfortable with touch and kindness. Or if you want to network professionally - always eager to learn from mentors in the industry because there will ALWAYS be men who know more than I do and have lived experiences that I have not yet lived. And PLEASE don't be an on-line phantom window shopper. I am into actually MEETING face to face!