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DearCatJ

55 F Henderson, NC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:10pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu

I believe in the dream of a man and a woman (ME!) who live in a joyful conspiracy with bodice ripping romance! I know that we can build a magical world for ourselves by working together with lots of laughter. I love to hear your stories, watch your version of chest-beating displays of prowess and share our music. You get to drive and I am fine that you don't ask for directions.

You value me because I am a sweet lover and I love to love. You admire me because I live fearlessly. I have lived and traveled abroad and we can re-visit some of our favorite places seeing them through new eyes. Although I am not a big sightseer as much as a person who likes to nest in one location and venture out on day trips. We find small hotels or a flat in a village for the summer off the beaten tourist path. Tents, Hostels and Ritz Carltons, they are all wonderful.

We are delighted when we find one another because challenges and sorrows divided are smaller and fun shared is multiplied. Yin and yang, complete yet complementary.
What I’m doing with my life
I am planning to relocate to a larger community where there is a more liberal environment with more proximity to an urban area near at least one large university. Living small and living larger. I have enjoyed living in the Baltimore-Washington area, Tidewater VA, North Carolina and the Caribbean. I like Asheville-WNC area a lot and I like the Pacific Northwest.

I am currently updating a historic property that is cozy in a small Southern town where I have lived for 15 years. I want to sell this property or make it a wonderful income producing property. I want to move.

I have started a third career teaching teenagers how to live with style, health and making conscious choices in an environment that demands conformity to the religion of consumerism. Can you believe that I actually teach cooking and table manners in a public school? Whether one chooses to be a slave to etiquette or flaunt the rules -- it is always good to feel comfortable in any environment.
I’m really good at
I am very good at creating beauty and bringing love into my everyday life. I love to encourage people. I am an excellent cook and gardener. I enjoy whole foods and dishes that are made from scratch. I am pretty good at being considerate. I am capable of logical thought and creative solutions. At one time I was really good at racing small sailboats. I love to fish. I excel at coffee drinking and attracting cats. HA!

I am good at fostering and placing cats. I have two permanent cats. Two cats plus your pets is enough!
The first things people usually notice about me
Most people notice that I am awake and alive to life. I am non-judgmental which means that I can appreciate and celebrate a lot of people and a wide variety of activities.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Way of The Peaceful Warrior. I enjoy books by Eckhart Tolle, romantic novels (no Harlequin) and David Deida. I am currently reading a book by Wayne Dyer on Tao Te Ching. Recently finished Threat Vector by Tom Clancy, Inferno by Dan Brown and The Hit by David Baldacci. I just finished reading John Sandford's book, Mad River.

Movies: My favorite is probably Out of Africa (coffee, travel, foreign lands, romance, natural beauty, adventure) and I loved Avitar. I enjoyed The Last Samurai, Star Trek, The Year of Living Dangerously, Rob Roy and I have enjoyed many movies with Kevin Costner including The Guardian & Bull Durham. My all-time favorite funny movie is A Fish Called Wanda followed by The In-laws (Peter Falk & Alan Arkin) then Kill Bill. And the answer is no, I don't know why I like Kill Bill.

I am inspired by the movies Chocolat!, Julie Julia and Woman On Top. I want to know why screenwriters frequently indict women who are culinary geniuses as murderers (Fried Green Tomatoes, Like Water for Chocolate, Hansel & Gretel) and our government punishes people like Martha Stewart, Paula Deen and Leona Helmsley so harshly. (OK, on many levels Leona Helmsley's incarceration was gratifying.)

Music: I enjoy Simply Red, Norah Jones, Eric Clapton, Cat Stevens, Bonnie Raitt, Celtic Thunder, Tina Turner, Steely Dan, Queen and Aaron Neville. I usually find a musical artist who mirrors what is going on in my life.

Food: I love to eat just about anything that is both fresh and delicious from Whole Foods. I like slow food. Most fast food inspires a "ICK" response but I eat it when there are no other choices and I am hungry.
The six things I could never do without
A stable, strong and gentle Renaissance man who makes me laugh
Flower gardening & cooking
Passion with an intimate spiritual connection -epic love
Music in my soul
Contentment/contribution
Basic stuff for survival like coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make today the best day EVER!

The next phase of my life. Sustainability, radiating peace within my environment, being in the now, paying attention to my heart, paying attention to how I can enjoy more beauty in my life and it is working! Finding the third way out of conflict and into caring.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing with a bottle of wine and watching a Ted.com talk while I do some laundry. Thinking about how I want to co- create the next chapter of our lives.... What I want to do right this moment...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am an unapologetic quaintrelle who has recently become public about it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 58–67
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have clear goals.
You frequently think, "Screw Romeo & Juliet -- I want a love like Gomez and Morticia!"

You think that:
- I am adorable and would like me to snuggle with you while you watch sports or we read. You have a crush on Herminone Granger.
You are:
- creative and want me to participate or cheer you on in your projects or want to participate in my creative projects.
You think:
- it is fun to moan with yummy sounds and delight over excellent food.
-saw me cruising your profile and want to talk.
-fine with the idea that I date multiple people until a relationship is determined by us to be exclusive.