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30 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Aug 26
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I've lived in NYC for over a decade but I've also lived in every state west of Texas. I'm equally comfortable at Burning Man and the Ballet. I've visited almost every National Park but also most of the museums in Paris.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a customer experience designer for the emerging legal Cannabis industry. I help Cannabis companies define their brand and deliver on that promise to their customers from website to exit bag.

Travel is my passion (fcking cliché I know).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Moving...I can build Ikea furniture faster than you.

I've spent the most days living in these cities: San Francisco, San Diego, Lake Tahoe, and Oakland, California; Boulder, Colorado; Whitefish and Sunburst, Montana; Ashland and Eugene, Oregon; Jersey City, New Jersey;

NYC for the win!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Reading: Audible, Subway train ads, & Kindle. Special mention for American Savage from Dan Savage & Bossypants from Tina Fey. Both read by the author and totally brilliant.

Watching: Broadway, Equity Waiver, Hulu, Netflix, & TED

Listening: Songza, WNYC, LivePhish & BBC Radio

Eating: Shake Shack, Daisy May's BBQ, Hill Country Chicken, Tiffan Wallah, Magnolia's Bakery (only for the banana pudding, cupcakes are so 2010 ;)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
People smarter than me, who push me to do better things, in strange places, making new friends, with grace and passion.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to bring together good people for unique experiences.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...spending the weekend with my boyfriend (on here as FoodHacker). That's right, that "available" status up top means I'm available for 1-2 nights a week. Luckily my heart is big and I believe you can have love for more than one person at a time.

We are polyamorous and we both see other people as we wish. In the best possible world, we might see the same people. If that's what you're looking for, check out our couples profile: EthicalSluts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Just because I'm not available for a primary relationship, doesn't mean I'm looking for random hook-ups. I care about the people in my life and you should too.

Also I'm kinky.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You'd like to make more poly/open friends with or without benefits. In the best possible world, maybe you and yours would be open to hanging out with me and FoodHacker. We both love dating but because of time crunches it would be amazing to be dating a couple so schedules aligned and get-away weekends were even more fun. Our couples profile is EthicalSluts.

Message me if you're interested in good food, good conversation, and good people. Complex cocktails are a bonus.