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DebXena

31 / F / bisexual / Available

Auckland, New Zealand

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly)

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I am voluptuous, laughing, and geeky.

My Self-Summary

I'm a writer, big fan of Buffy and Firefly. Polyamorous and pansexual, I am in a civil union with my primary partner, and have other lovers and friends-with-benefits. I am a published poet and movie reviewer, and have my own website and LJ. I love to read, read to love, and adore my cats and my husband :)

What I’m doing with my life

I'm working permanently part-time, writing, and sharing time with my husband, my lover, and other intimate connections. Time management has become very important!

I’m really good at

Most anything I set my mind to. Complex math is a little past what I can manage though - get thee to a calculator!

The first things people usually notice about me

What are they looking for? I'm voluptuous, so people either notice the fat body (and the fat breasts), or they see that I'm laughing :)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a) too many! I love Lee Child, Isaac Asimov, Patricia Cornwell, Stephen King, Jonathan Kellerman, Robert Heinlein, and far too many more to count. I'm also a large fan of graphic novels and comics, particularly enamoured by the works of Alan Moore, Joss Whedon, Judd Winick, and David Mack.

b) I review movies - so I get to see a lot of them. My top all-time favourites remain Pump Fiction, The Last Seduction, and The Princess Bride. Violence, sex and fantasy - what more can a woman want?

c) A big variety. Anything from classical through to rock.

d) I'm pesco-vegetarian (fish and veges). I love a really good Spinach Lasagne, or homemade pizza with artichokes, roma tomatoes, pesto and mozzarella.

The six things I could never do without

1) Books 2) Books 3) Books 4) Books 5) Sex 6) Books

I spend a lot of time thinking about

See the six things I could never do without :) polyamory

On a typical Friday night I am

Either on a date, home with my partner watching anime, or out with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have three tattoos, with a fourth (under the breasts) on the way.

You should message me if

You want to make a new friend. I only sleep with friends, so don't message if you're only looking for a bonk.