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Debaser9

22 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 22
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I really like how some people's self-summaries on here start off with "I'm just a really laid-back guy who likes to hang out" and if that weren't a meaningless statement/a denial of my neurosis I would totally start mine off that way.

For Myers-Briggs fans, I'm an INFJ. And all of the things that come with that.
What I’m doing with my life
Well, my job is fundraising for a local nonprofit that brings a meditation program to schools in the Bay Area. Not sure if that's "what I'm doing with my life" though. Ugh what am I doing with my life? Filling out this section always sends me into crisis ugh let's just move on to the next one
I’m really good at
I'm great at talking about feelings. Really fantastic at analyzing personality types. Idk... I get sick a lot? What sorts of things am I supposed to be good at for this section? Practical things? I'm not good at practical things. Oh, I'm good at videogames. And posing. My hair is cute. Okay yeah nvm I'm good at practical things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Radiohead, Bjork, The Smiths/Morrissey, The Beatles, Belle & Sebastian, Kate Bush, St. Vincent, Fiona Apple, The Magnetic Fields

Books: things by Kurt Vonnegut, Virginia Woolf, Margaret Atwood, Douglas Adams, Douglas Coupland, Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore

Movies: Annie Hall, But I'm A Cheerleader, Amelie, Pixar movies, The Graduate

Food: ramen, spaghetti, any and all noodles that can hold sriracha

Video games (not that you asked, OK Cupid, but you really should have): Final Fantasy, Zelda, Persona, Fire Emblem, Dark Cloud, Dragon Quest
The six things I could never do without
Friends, family, music, sleep, Bjork's existence on this Earth, my queer community
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Queer stuff, feminist stuff, social justice stuff, Myers-Briggs, my future, people, sex, psychology, music, video games
On a typical Friday night I am
"Ugh I'm tired I need to go lie down I wonder how many takis I can fit in my mouth at once"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Okay this is going to be hard for me to say… so just bear with me…
Okay, deep breaths… gonna take deep breaths…
I… *inhale*… … *exhale*… I am really great and you should send me a message. There. I did it. Wow, I feel so much better now.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
I can't make this decision for you. Did you think this section was going to give you easy answers? There are no easy answers to *poses* all of THIS.

P. S. If I didn't respond to you and you said something nice - thanks for saying that nice thing! I have been finding OKCupid super draining recently and my response rate has started dropping as a result… I still really appreciate anyone who wants to say hi and I will try to respond if you ask me a thing!