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Debaser9

22 M Ann Arbor, MI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:56pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I really like how some people's self-summaries on here start off with "I'm just a really laid-back guy who likes to hang out" and I would totally start mine off that way except I'm not "laid-back" let alone "really laid-back" and I don't actually like to "hang out" :(

For Myers-Briggs fans, I'm an INFJ. And all of the things that come with that.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm moving to Ann Arbor in August to go get a PhD in Psychology & Women's Studies. Gonna study queer things and hormones. I'm excited about it! :D :D :D
I’m really good at
YES finally we get to the GOOD PART where I get to talk about ME

Okay so I'm really great at:
Figuring out your Myers-Briggs personality type
Tarot readings
Giving relationship advice
Talking about my feelings
Getting other people to talk about their feelings
Remembering lyrics
Making up better lyrics

I'm not good at:
Practical things
Sports
Being "chill"
The first things people usually notice about me
The intensity of my hair
The intensity of my personality
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Björk, Kate Bush, Fiona Apple, Tori Amos, Joni Mitchell, St. Vincent, The Smiths/Morrissey, Belle & Sebastian, Tegan & Sara, The Magnetic Fields, Radiohead, Portishead, Modest Mouse, Janelle Monae, Joanna Newsom, Neko Case, Frank Ocean

I really don't know what to put for books because my favorites feel so specific to certain times in my life. Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore's The End of San Francisco and Why Are Faggots So Afraid Of Faggots? are my most recent favorites.

My taste in movies doesn't feel like a big part of my taste-identity. Same with TV shows.

Video Games (not that you asked, OK Cupid, but you really should have): Final Fantasy, Zelda, Persona/Shin Megami Tensei, Fire Emblem, Dark Cloud, Dragon Quest
The six things I could never do without
Bjork's existence on this Earth, my queer community, alone time, time with my friends, time with my family, space to overanalyze things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Queer stuff, feminist stuff, social justice stuff, Myers-Briggs, my future, other people, sex, relationships, psychology, music, video games
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Okay this is going to be hard for me to say… so just bear with me…
Okay, deep breaths… gonna take deep breaths…
I… *inhale*… … *exhale*… I am really great and you should send me a message. There. I did it. Wow, I feel so much better now.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
I can't make this decision for you. Did you think this section was going to give you easy answers?

jk I am (about to be) new to Ann Arbor and want to meet queers of all kinds for friendships of all kinds so hmu <3