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38 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Apr 24, 2014
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Working on university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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OK, Cupid. Been procrastinating this one for a while since it feels a bit too much like a job interview, lol, but out of respect for some of the ladies that have taken the time to write some very eloquent self-summaries, I thought I'd try my hand at putting myself in a lil package-hopefully one that you will want to unwrap many times, hehe! B)

If I had to do one of those corny name anagrams to sum up who I am it would probably look something like this, lol:


Having grown up bouncing around between schools in LA, NYC, and SF every couple years until high school, it was naturally important for me to learn to be an outgoing, genuine, and generally likeable guy to effectively adapt and thrive in my new cities, schools, etc.. My friends tend to lean on me as their trusted adviser and voice of reason, as I'm usually will always attempt to see things from every angle and analyze every possible outcome before making major decisions. Thus, I tend to be very mediated, and usually take a balanced approach to all aspects of my life, but certainly have a wicked thrill seeking side, and love living life on the edge on occasion; "tipping the scales" so to speak, lol...and although I've had many struggles in my life, I believe *everything* happens for a reason, and wouldn't change a damn thing as I wouldn't be who I am today...

Update-Apr '13...

Mmmkay. Haven't been on here for a while, starting to lose faith in the legitimacy of the site, and or faith in humanity, lol...Please don't bother messaging or rating me if you're not real and don't intend to actually respond. Thanks! ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a bit of a jack of all trades...Corporate Sales/Marketing/Biz Dev guy by day (although got laid off in Feb so I'm in between jobs right now), and Music Producer/old school Turntablist/DJ by night (though I don't really go out anymore unless it's for gigs, lol). Working on my first full-length album, and lots of remix productions that had been on the to-do list before being out of work...
I’m really good at
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Sales, Marketing, DJing, music production, reading people, communicating, and playing pretty much any sport, especially: Tennis, Golf, Soccer, Rock Climbing, Basketball, Skateboarding/Snowboarding, Darts, Pool...oh, and cooking (if we ever get that far, ask me to cook my Pad Kra Pow (aka Sweet Thai Basil Chicken) or homemade Vietnamese Pho Bo for you sometime ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Let's meet up sometime and see...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love to read, though admittedly haven't read a book in years being I don't have any time for it with all the studio work I keep myself busy with (I know, I know-you make time right?). Some all-time fave books include: The Teachings of Don Juan (all those books in the series by Carlos Casteneda), Black Elk Speaks, On The Road, Celestine Prophecy, anything by Dan Brown, James Patterson, Tom Clancy, Isaac Asimov, Dean Koontz and other fiction writers...

Proud not to have paid for cable since 2010, but of what kind of "sound guy" would I be if I didn't have a kick ass home theater system, right, lol? So when I'm not out or working on beats in the studio, I'm usually watching movies on Netflix...not much into "TV" shows, but loved the occasional HBO series like True Blood, or East Bound & Down, and will admit-with the plethora of time I've had around the house being unemployed the last couple months, I got into a medieval kick and started in on A World Without End, and progressed into a full-on habit of watching The Tudors episodes back to back to back until they were done a couple weeks ago,'s been so long since I've watched anything on cable, had no idea "TV-MA" was so sexy hot these days (and that's an old show), haha~!

Being a 70's child-was raised on the institution of Classic Rock-it's pretty scary how many songs I know the words to in that vein...any and all Beatles, Jimi, The Stones, Steely Dan, Cream, Zeppelin, Santana, Creedence, The Doobies, etc. I grew up through the 80's, I fell in love with synthetic sounds, and was heavily influenced on my own terms by artists like: Michael Jackson (of course), The Police, Foreigner, Phil Collins and Genesis, I've been a "synth head" for almost as long as I've been a DJ (20 years)! When I'm not working on original stuff for my album, I'm working on remixes of I started a label a few years back called "iRock Classics" with the intent on remixing all my fave Classic Rock, and 80's dance tunes...'s a remix I did for "the ladies" recently if ya wanna check out some of my stuff...hope ya dig it, cuz if not-it prob wouldn't work out between us ;)

Ace of Base "All That She Wants" (Infinitee's DrumStep Remix)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My music.
My heart.
My brain.
(Gotta add a 7th for harmony's sake)..


I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next big gig opportunity "so I can have some security and stuff, like Glenn Gulia" and...makin' wicked eats, beats, 'n basslines...that is until the right person comes along then it'll be ________, work, and hopefully still some time for wicked beats 'n basslines, lol...
You should message me if
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you want to have a good time and share some laughs with the potential for something more...