Decontructor82
33 Jamaica, NY
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My self-summary
Writing about myself can be challenging sometimes. I encourage anyone who wants to know more about me to simply message me and share their curiosity with me. I'll continue to update this summary but the bottom line is that I'm looking to date but not have the search for potential dating partners take over my life. My friend recommended this site and I like it so far. Let's see where things take us.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I work as a program coordinator at a non-profit organization. My area of focus is health services and education for people that need it most. I've been doing this for a while and enjoy what I do and am looking forward to applying and getting accepted to a graduate program so I can expand my knowledge in this field. Getting to know oneself is a lifelong process, soul-mates reveal parts of ourselves we have yet to discover.
I’m really good at
I promise this will be a strange combination...

Driving backwards (forward too but that's not as fun)
Drawing blood (I'm a certified Phlebotomist)
Reading my cat's mind (she's got me well trained)
Cooking Chinese stir fry
Hitting my target (Rifle, Handgun & bow/arrow)
Conducting workshops on health education
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmm, that I'm not white. This applies specifically for folks who have spoken with me over the phone but have not seen me as yet... (I've been told that I "sound white" whatever that means.)

I imagine people who meet me in person also notice my race. I've also been told that my height is mostly noticeable when standing right next to someone and that I am stronger than I look.
The six things I could never do without
Hmm, as bad as this is lately I've been pretty attached to my iPhone. It's not because I'm all that trendy, but because I've become used to having the Internet at my fingertips all the time. Although I'm driving it less to save money, I like having a car. Two years ago I went a few months without a job, that sucked pretty badly. Oh a notebook and a pen, when I travel I have to have those things. Hmm what else? Not everywhere takes credit cards so I try to always have cash. How many is that? Lets let my phone count as two things and call it six. Just to be clear here's my list:

1. Phone 2. Internet 3. Car
4. Job 5. Pen & Paper 6. Cash (Not in that order)

I know I could probably do without any one of these things but not having any of them might drive me a little crazy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Guys, Traveling, Music, Storms, Guns, Sex, Workplace drama, Cars, Politics, Race, Zoo animals, Money, My family, Flight, Graduate school, 420, My friends Psychology & My future.

I think a lot, sometimes more than I want to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with my boys, drinking a few drinks and discussing what we'll do when we rule the world... unless that's just me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I learned to ride a bike when I was 12 and ran over an old lady in the park in the process... she was fine...she got up eventually!
You should message me if
If you've read my profile and you want to know more about me and think that we might be a match.
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