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36 Kansas City, MO Transgender, Trans Woman

Transgender, Trans Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 24
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hi! This is a pretty old profile, and is embarrassingly out of date (like, by a few years) I need to update it... anyway, until I do, here's the old stuff:

I am mellow, caring, inquisitive and independent. I love exploring all that life has to offer, trying new things, seeing new places and trying out new ideas.

I try hard to foster a child-like sense of wonder about the world. Many people lose that. There are so many amazing things to see and do in this life, and I want to experience as much of it as I can. I have a fear (hopefully irrational) that someday I will become complacent and boring, and settle into a routine that saps the "interesting" out of my life.

I am an agnostic atheist but not militant about it, and do not try to sway others from their beliefs. I love to explore ideas in religion as they relate to culture and history.

I am politically independent but lean liberal, especially on social issues. I tend to avoid politics on the whole, especially since I believe cultural change is much more important.

I spend much of my free time with friends and colleagues, and often enjoy a relaxing night of good conversation. I love the outdoors, camping, fishing, playing frisbee golf, walking through the woods, or practicing photography. I also love the indoors, movies, reading, and exploring the internet. Travel is also a passion, especially road trips and unplanned exploration of new places.

I love cultures and society, and especially love fringe cultures. It is fascinating to me how with the advent of the internet, people with whatever obscure interest, desire or belief can find others and form a community. There are thousands of micro-cultures made possible by the internet, and I love spending time learning about them, especially the "weird" ones.
What I’m doing with my life
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I recently made the decision to have a go at following my dreams and doing what I want with my life. So far, it is going well!

I work with software, mostly consulting with a long-term permanent part time position that provides a layer of stability and benefits over the typical consulting roller-coaster ride.

I also have small shop in my garage where I build things to express a more creative side and balance out the cerebral work of software development.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love to cook, and like most things in my life, I love to experiment and try new things. Some ideas work, some are amazing, and some are hideously awful in an almost Lovecraft-ian sense. Pro tip: never combine sauerkraut and cream cheese.

I am great at learning new things which matches well with my never-ending curiosity.

I have always had a bond with technology, and started programming when I was very young. I've always loved logic puzzles, and programming is like getting to solve puzzles all day and be paid for it!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My quiet nature. I am an introvert and though I love crowds and meeting people, I can be a bit of a wallflower.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
For books, movies and TV, I enjoy documentaries, adventure, speculative sci-fi, and anything related to travel and culture.

For food, I love everything interesting. Small diners and hole-in-the-walls with simple but amazing food, black tie dinners with elegant and artful presentation, unusual and culturally varied cuisines from every continent but Antarctica, and especially small locally owned places where the owners are passionate about what they do. I love the refinement and perfection of French and Japanese cuisine. I love the warmth of a good vietnamese pho or the homeyness of long smoked barbeque. I feel comfortable with either grits or Foie Gras. Food has long been a passion of mine that I picked up from my father who had a culinary streak.

Musically, I am eclectic and have enjoyed everything from metal to rap to classical spanish guitar. Mostly though, I listen to pop, indie rock, folksy stuff, hip-hop and atmospheric electronica. If I am on a long drive alone, I prefer audio books.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Assuming the basic needs are met:

The internet. A sense of wonder and curiosity. Challenging projects to work on. Interesting people to talk to. New things to learn. Maybe you?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether the Technological Singularity is really inevitable or even possible, and if it will happen in my lifetime. What new things will be revealed/discovered/invented in the next few years. What's for dinner?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typically I am at home watching a movie, reading, or working in the shop. I am not really a go out on friday-night kind of person.

I do however try to make it to First Fridays when I can, it is cool to see such a live and thriving art scene in Kansas City.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm Bi. Really! I have had relationships with both men and women, of varied ages and sizes. To me, I am more interested in who someone is than what they are physically.

Also, though I try hard to be an honest person, but I am often more closed and private than I would like. However, if you ask me a question I will always answer as truthfully as I can.
You should message me if
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If you made it though my rambling, over-wordy, probably too serious, vaguely specific (or specifically vague) profile, surely you should take a moment and say hi!