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65 Salt Lake City, UT Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 53–64
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Feb 23
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
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My self-summary
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I am very holistic, metaphysical. I'm vegetarian. Into Herbalism and healing in body, mind spirit.
I love A Course In Miracles, Yogananda and love to read.
I want a whole authentic person who has done his own healing and knows how to communicate. preferably someone who is vegetarian, holistic, extremely kind to animals. Meditates, understands the Divine.
I am a very kind, conscious person. I have worked hard to be emotionally healthy and aware and expect the same. I love nature, children, animals, poetry, art, music.
believe in having purpose to our life. I love color and light. I'm a true Aquarius...out of the box. I feel stifled by rules and regulations but I am very gentle and kind. I see beauty in many things. I choose to remain open and I have gleaned strength from experience. I believe in a divine source. I have a gentle humor. I dislike violence, unkindness, politics, Not into lots of sports or drinking. I love walking, swimming, wonderful healthy food, dining out, dressing up, being feminine, wearing jeans and getting messy, being caring and having an amazing partner. I believe everyone can get on if they have a plan, create win win and Communicate effectively.


A relationship is about two people coming together with an intention to love, to serve and to commit to the growth of each others souls.

Once you are in a relationship all your learning and concepts go out the window and you are now in the fire, a sacred crucible...the opportunity to learn about yourself, and aspects and dimensions of your own self of your own psyche that you're not even aware of.l
In a good relationship love will bring up everything unlike order for you to see it and
heal yourself through that mirroring and reflection.

A relationship has a profound ability to help you evolve as a person as a human being, and as a soul on a journey.
So when two souls come together with that sacred understanding, with that recognition of the potential power of what a relationship is about and what the possibility of relating with one another can provide then if you can commit to that...the commitment being...Yes, I commit to serving you, I commit to serving your soul evolution, now, you have a relationship.

Number one: There has to be that understanding.
Most people come into a relationship unconscious. Their pain,need and wounding comes up,and they start to want their partner to fulfill their unmet needs.

If you can come into the relationship knowing it is about the evolution of the soul...and the other person is going to trigger your stuff...and that's not necessarily's actually a great thing when the other person triggers you. It's not about whether the person is going to trigger's about when and how and how often.

So, if you can have an understanding, and a holding space for the relationship, to hold each other through that, with a commitment that, "I am here to serve your growth and when the stuff comes up, pain, insecurity, inadequacies, fear of abandonment, the rather than going into reactivity, or drama, and attack which doesn't help anyone, then you can deal with that stuff in a whole different way.
You can interact with your partner with tenderness, compassion, understanding, and love. Stuff will come up...always. With these understandings it gives you the ability to transform your relationship with relationships
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a web site which is my life's work. I am also readjusting to life alone. I want to feel above all other things that despite my desire to be with someone I love that I know how to stand alone and that I truly love my self. How can we be there for someone else if we are not there for our self? I believe most people are looking for their other half to make them complete...instead of becoming complete themselves first.
I’m really good at
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Writing. Making friends. Holistic healing. Seeing the best in others. Being with children. Being spontaneous. Having fun. Speaking out when needed...can be very quiet, or chat a lot when I'm with someone I love but if there is one thing that irritates me it is someone who pretends and does not speak but harbors resentment. All things can be worked out.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair because its two colors and my eyes. My English accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Disney movies, English dramas, (I grew up in England).
Healthy food...that comes off trees and from the ground.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, Unconditional love. Nature. Children. Animals. Music. Light. Writing. Reading.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Unconditional Love. I am a writer. I genuinely believe we are on this earth to BE love. I'm not saying that I've done a great job of that. I am saying I'm trying and each day desire to be this more than anything. Maybe that makes me sound a little weak to some. I am not. I am strong in many ways and deeply grateful for all I've experienced. I am also constantly seeking ways to be a better person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing whatever spontaneously comes up for me. I'm not conventional but I am trying to be more ordered in my life. I love theater, music, dance, and art and deep interesting conversations. At the moment though I havent been doing a lot. Most of my friends are married and so I have been spending time with family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am an open book. I don't believe in secrets. I've had serious trials in my life...including an accident that almost paralyzed me, relationships that have caused me to become certified in emotional healing and deeply seek for the divine. I have overcome many things. I am a positive, joyful, loving person with a lot of depth. However, I'm very careful as to who I truly allow to become close to me. I will be your friend but I am far from the kind of person who is going to be romantic unless I have fallen in love ...and I don't know that is up to me...more up to what is meant to be, and if we are really meant to be together.
You should message me if
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I am happy to be friends with people who do not believe as I do. However, my ideal person would be vegan, incredibly kind I am...holistic minded or at least understand and agree with it. I really don't mind if you eat meat or love sports if we love each other, but there has to be understanding for one another, doesn't there?
He would love animals, children, nature and art and music. He would understand metaphysical things and be spiritual but not religious/rule oriented and controlling. He would laugh a lot, and see far beyond the mundane. He would understand what it is to be conscious and awake to our times and he would seek for and believe in Unconditional Love. He would be amazing at communication. An understanding of meditation and Tantra would be nice.