I love A Course In Miracles, Yogananda and love to read.
I want a whole authentic person who has done his own healing and knows how to communicate. Someone who is vegetarian, holistic, extremely kind to animals. Meditates, understands the Divine.
I am a very kind, conscious person. I have worked hard to be emotionally healthy and aware and expect the same. I love nature, children, animals, poetry, art, music.
I was born in Tulsa. I grew up from age 2 in England. Been in Utah for 24 years. I believe in having purpose to our life. I love color and light. I'm a true Aquarius...out of the box. I feel stifled by rules and regulations but I am very gentle and kind. I see beauty in many things. I choose to remain open and I have gleaned strength from experience. I believe in a divine source. I have a gentle humor. I dislike violence, unkindness, politics, Not into lots of sports or drinking. I love walking, swimming, wonderful healthy food, dining out, dressing up, being feminine, wearing jeans and getting messy, being caring and having an amazing partner. I believe everyone can get on if they have a plan, create win win and Communicate effectively. Following words by Kute Blackson...I love this philosophy A relationship is about two people coming together with an intention...an intention to love, to serve and to commit to the growth of each others souls.
Once you are in a relationship all your learning and concepts go out the window and you are now in the fire, a sacred crucible...the opportunity to learn about yourself, and aspects and dimensions of your own self of your own psyche that you're not even aware of.
In a good relationship love will bring up everything unlike itself...in order for you to see it and
heal yourself through that mirroring and reflection.
A relationship has a profound ability to help you evolve as a person as a human being, and as a soul on a journey.
So when two souls come together with that sacred understanding, with that recognition of the potential power of what a relationship is about and what the possibility of relating with one another can provide then if you can commit to that...the commitment being...Yes, I commit to serving you, I commit to serving your soul evolution, now, you have a relationship.
Number one: There has to be that understanding.
Most people come into a relationship unconscious. Their pain,need and wounding comes up,and they start to want their partner to fulfill their unmet needs.
If you can come into the relationship knowing it is about the evolution of the soul...and the other person is going to trigger your stuff...and that's not necessarily bad...it's actually a great thing when the other person triggers you. It's not about whether the person is going to trigger you...it's about when and how and how often.
So, if you can have an understanding, and a holding space for the relationship, to hold each other through that, with a commitment that, "I am here to serve your growth and evolution...so when the stuff comes up, pain, insecurity, inadequacies, fear of abandonment, the rather than going into reactivity, or drama, and attack which doesn't help anyone, then you can deal with that stuff in a whole different way.
You can interact with your partner with tenderness, compassion, understanding, and love. Stuff will come up...always. With these understandings it gives you the ability to transform your relationship with relationships