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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm Aaron. Hella dreamy. Analytic. Creative. Empathetic. Aware. Appreciative. SMART. Convicted enough to use adjectives like this about myself.

Not a huge fan of The Gay Scene (not here in Oz, anyway) because ultimately I think it normalises some really damaged behaviours that are essentially just responses to rejection, and I find that really dull. Transcend, people - or at least TRY to, you know? Sheesh.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm just returning to Sydney after a lovely break from it up the coast where I manage international marketing for a university. I'm still doing this, but have scored a transfer to their new Sydney campus, so... I'm coming back (at this stage, officially in January). I also travel a lot, so you may find me in other places round this big ol' world.

I'm also very active in creative projects outside of my main work. At the end of the day, I'm a writer. I also make music and DJ. And I've been lucky enough to be able to do all these professionally; but neither are they confined to my career. And while I have a pretty good job, I clash with people who hang their entire identity upon their business card. I know a lot of successful people who are really quite painful, and I know a lot of waiters who are beautiful souls.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmmmm.... making nachos... also, that bit in trivia where you have to guess the song they're playing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Judging on what people are prepared to give back to me... that I'm tall... my eyes are BLUE (because, you know, I've never realised?!)... and that I'm not afraid to say what I think.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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some music I like on spotify

Film... David Lynch (especially Lost Highway)... Christopher Guest (especially Best In Show and Waiting For Guffman)... Paul Verhoeven (Basic Instinct *drool*)... Lars Von Trier (I have a little dark side, I suppose).

Books... I tend to read non-fiction. Though I recently put JK Rowling's "A Casual Vacancy" on my kindle and, much to my surprise, really loved it. I also have a long history with Sartre (although I haven't read him for years now), and I guess he was somewhere still in my subconscious when I tried to find an OK Cupid name nobody had used yet..

Food... I love anything Mexican, a good gourmet pizza, a German schnitzel drowning in cream, and espresso martinis. In no particular order.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Creativity... the ocean... love... my cats... violins (they melt me).... and.... um.... rollercoasters.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking. About lots of things. And feeling. Thinking and feeling, really.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Tired from work. But I'm lots of fun on Saturdays!
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