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36 M Sydney, Australia

My Details

Last Online
Aug 16
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
ME? Creative. Dreamy. Analytic. Empathetic. Aware. Convicted enough to use adjectives like this about myself.

Happy to interact with people who are different to me - life is interesting, but dull when driven by narcissism and needing to "belong" only through mirror images. Except for right-wing people. You can all get fucked. By someone else.

To be honest, I don't hang out with many gay men much - at all - and generally find them far too willing to make a life out of their trauma. I like being kind to myself. And I also like being kind to others. I'm grateful I have this emotional capacity. I'm not perfect, but I try to be the best I can be, and constantly evolve.

Anyway. Enough about me. No, wait. There's more sections.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathising - understanding - being able to transcend my subjectivity and see someone else's, even if I don't agree with it. I also make a great nachos.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Going off what people say to me, that I'm really tall. And that I have HELLO blue eyes. Then there are all the things they don't have the guts to say to me, I suppose.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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MOVIES: David Lynch is God. Period. But if I want to laugh, I'll turn to Christopher Guest. Alternatively, if I wanna hate the world, I'll turn to Lars Von Trier.

MUSIC: At the end of the day, I really just love anything from any genre that makes me FEEL. Today, I have been listening to Beach House. I'm devastated that Tim left Midlake. I'm happy Goldfrapp's new album isn't electropop shit. I wish more people knew how good Marissa Nadler is. But I also like to dance occasionally to driving tech, mostly from Germany.

BOOKS: Anything in the non-fiction section. I love culture and history. But I also love philosophy, sociology and psychology. Sartre is another one of my Gods. Freud is always a fabulous read.

FOOD: Mexican. Except now the hipsters like it. Fucking hipsters.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music... film... compassion... my cats... rollercoasters... and, um... nachos.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking. About lots of things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wish the whole world were on OK Cupid, so I could look at their questionaires and pre-emptively shoot down all those projections we all place on each other.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 20–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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