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53 San Anselmo, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 12
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I am a passionate woman, psychotherapist, mother, author, lover, and friend who is looking for the last great love of my life. I love men who are passionate, smart, funny, erotic, playful, adventurous, and love to travel. I love my life, love my work, love my friends and family, and long to share the best years of my life loving the right man. Love is an act of devotion and worship for me. Looking for the guy who "gets" what that means and is open and ready for the love experience of a lifetime.

I love poetry, writing and reading, enjoy solitude and silence, have a deep internal spiritual life, love to do ecstatic dance, love to laugh, love early morning and late night pillow talk, love spending an entire day in bed making love and talking, and love the intimacy that grows over time between lovers.

I have done my share of work on myself and am fairly adept at knowing what I am feeling and wanting, and expressing myself with kindness, empathy, and compassion.

I am looking for an emotionally available and mature man who is ready to explore the depths of intimacy...spiritual, sexual, emotional, and intellectual, with a smart, sexy, passionate, playful, deep, soulful woman.
What I’m doing with my life
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Just finished writing my first book and excited to see it published soon. Have a thriving psychotherapy practice and also teach seminars and workshops, as well as taking people traveling to sacred sights around the world. This year I will be traveling to Bali and India. Have two beautiful children whom I adore, one already graduated from college and living in NYC, and another still at home.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Emotional intelligence, communicating vulnerably through difficult issues, listening deeply, loving fully and completely, laughing wholeheartedly, lovemaking, dancing, finding empathy and compassion for difficult places.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my smile, my laugh, and my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books: anything by Salman Rushdie, The Magus, Shantaram, The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists, anything by James Hollis or Marion Woodman
Favorite movies: Gandhi, Scent of a Woman, American Beauty, The Devil's Advocate
Music: Leanord Cohen, Joni Mitchell, Snatum Kuar, Krishna Das, Muddy Waters, Van Morrison.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Lovemaking, time by the ocean, time spent talking and laughing with good friends, travel to foreign countries, my children, laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Deepening my relationship with the Beloved; both inner and outer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hunkered in at home enjoying some precious solitude, or out to dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really love making love when it is with the right person.
You should message me if
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You are interested in my profile and want to begin a dialogue to see if there is mutual interest in getting to know each other better.