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42 M San Lorenzo, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:29pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese

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My self-summary
I'm a creative and easygoing cisgendered gentleman who is getting exactly what he wants from the universe. I make games for a living, love San Francisco and Alameda, and have extensive interests in art, lit, underground parties, and a wide circle of treasured friends. I'm in a solid open relationship and I'm looking for fun ladies to be friends and maybe more with.

I gotta say I was a bit sad to see many of my costume pics get really low ratings. Apparently ladies around here want men who won't dress as zombies or pirates at the drop of a hat...

I have a kinky side to my love life that isn't necessarily required, but opens up more fun should that part of things be compatible.

"Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination." - Oscar Wilde

"We come spinning out of nothingness, scattering stars like dust." - Rumi

"To find yourself, think for yourself" - Socrates

"The world is indeed comic, but the joke is on mankind." - H. P. Lovecraft
What I’m doing with my life
As a professional ludologist, I investigate and create games. Computer games, tabletop games, board games, and more all are in my purview.

My day job is a producer at a bay area game developer.

l'm an owner/partner in The Residence Bar in San Francisco - they make very classy drinks with the goodness.

I gig around the Bay Area as DJ PHANFASM... Hear some of my sets at That's an Oz reference, by the way.

I'm making kinky and sex positive boardgames on the side for fun!
I’m really good at
Telling a story. Creating an experience that evokes wonder and horror both.
The first things people usually notice about me
My d33vle may care, d33vle take the hindmost, idle hands doing the d33vle's work.
The six things I could never do without
Innovation. Sex. Connectivity. Information. Magick. Intention.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out and about at some kind of co-creative high-signal party.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You love yourself, first off. Work out that relationship first, and all will come to you. You have passion for what you do, every moment, even when you are just chilling out. Ambition, intelligence, wit, beauty are yours. You have a taste for the bohemian, the forbidden, and couldn't conscience living like 90% of the rest of humanity... but you are willing to help maximize everyone's peak experiences and enable your friends to be more and more themselves.