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37 Alameda, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
Open relationship
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese
My self-summary
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I'm a creative and easygoing cisgendered gentleman who is getting exactly what he wants from the universe. I make games for a living, love San Francisco and Alameda, and have extensive interests in art, lit, underground parties, and a wide circle of treasured friends. I'm a long-time non-monogamist, ethical slut and GGG gent. Looking for lovely ladies who want to know more about all that, and/or who are willing to hit the ground running with me on it.

I have a kinky side to my love life that isn't necessarily required, but opens up more fun should that part of things be compatible.

"Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination." - Oscar Wilde

"We come spinning out of nothingness, scattering stars like dust." - Rumi

"To find yourself, think for yourself" - Socrates

"The world is indeed comic, but the joke is on mankind." - H. P. Lovecraft
What I’m doing with my life
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As a professional ludologist, I investigate and create games. Computer games, tabletop games, board games, and more all are in my purview.

My day job is a producer at a bay area game developer.

l'm an owner/partner in The Residence Bar in San Francisco - they make very classy drinks with the goodness.

I gig around the Bay Area as DJ PHANFASM... Hear some of my sets at That's an Oz reference, by the way.

I'm making kinky and sex positive boardgames on the side for fun!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling a story. Creating an experience that evokes wonder and horror both.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My d33vle may care, d33vle take the hindmost, idle hands doing the d33vle's work.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Innovation. Sex. Connectivity. Information. Magick. Intention.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How humans play.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about at some kind of co-creative high-signal party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I dress to the left.
You should message me if
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You love yourself, first off. Work out that relationship first, and all will come to you. You have passion for what you do, every moment, even when you are just chilling out. Ambition, intelligence, wit, beauty are yours. You have a taste for the bohemian, the forbidden, and couldn't conscience living like 90% of the rest of humanity... but you are willing to help maximize everyone's peak experiences and enable your friends to be more and more themselves.