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Defelite

23 / F / Bisexual / Seeing someone

London, United Kingdom

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Other
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Latvian (Fluently)

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I am melancholic, eccentric, and random.

My Self-Summary

I am in a serious relationship so only interested in friends... Preferably in the London area... I get lonely. :(

Hee... I don't really know. You can't summarise someone in a few words. You have to meet them. Talk to them. And then you may only scratch the surface.

I love coffee. COFFEEcoffeeCOFFEE ... ohhh... the black goodness.

I'm a lover of music, art, sociology and have an interest in social work; I am aiming to become a Police Community Support Officer, or a counsellor. Would like to do a Masters Degree in Sociology in a few years time also. I LOVE art, but don't spend enough time doing it, or looking it up. :(

I would really love to explore, see different cultures, and feel what other places are like. I am burning to see more than just my flat, but need to first find a paying job to do so!

Mixture of backgrounds, lived in London since I was 10. I like to question authority, but as life goes, I have to adhere to the rules otherwise there is no way forward. A rebel at heart though, I won't always do what you tell me!

What I’m doing with my life

Recently undertook a huge weight loss, and lost 8 stone thanks to Lighter Life. (Living on powder shakes is bloody terrible by the way...!)
Living with my boyfriend (synthaside) in Greater London at the moment, finished studying Sociology at University... now going to look for a job... I have a few piercings and one, yes, ONE tattoo... want more but I'm too indecisive!! I don't want crap like butterflies or unicorns... GRR! I am designing some tattoos at the moment.
Apart from that, I am volunteering around in areas I enjoy which helps me understand how the world works. I don't want to be a cog in the works, I want to make a difference in my life. Even if I help one soul in the world, then my time has been worthwhile.

I’m really good at

Drawing... but I haven't done it for a very long time now. I like art, and to ponder what it means. And I'd like to think I'm good at helping people too, I don't mind listening when someone has an issue to get off their chest - even if I don't know the person very well.

The first things people usually notice about me

My honesty and sillyness when I get going...!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: I read all kinds of stuff... I prefer classics (such as 1984 or A Brave New World/Bell Jar), and books about Serial Killers. Don't ask why... I'm not actually sure.

Movies/TV: Fight Club, The Butterfly Effect, Equilibrium, American History X, The Blair Witch Project, Mio my Mio, some obscure Soviet Union films, Back to the Future Trilogy -- Derren Brown (that man is so sexy!!), Dylan Moran, Bill Bailey, Family Guy, Heroes, Breaking Bad, Supernatural, Ghost Whisperer, Mythbusters... Discovery Channels? They have some interesting programs on there. O.o

Music:
Tool
(Tool deserve a spot on their own... they're too amazing)
Opeth, Agalloch, Seether, Folk Metal, Viking Metal, A Perfect Circle, Moonsorrow, Ensiferum, Equilibrium, 3 Doors Down, Creed, Apocalyptica, Default, Spineshank, In Flames, Kamelot, Everygrey, Ani DiFranco, Foo Fighters, Snow Patrol. Lots of stuff really, depends on my mood.

Food: Chicken dishes mostly, SUSHI, some mild curry .. fruit. :3 Chocolate ... Mmm...

The six things I could never do without

1. A good cup of coffee.
2. My boyfriend (cheesy eh?)
3. Music on the go (even though I hate Apple, I've been forced to use an iPod because it was a gift :( )
4. Sunshine
5. Computer with internet
6. My cat called Catbert. He flops on cushions. :3

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Nature, life, music, authority... Also I tend to think too much about human interaction from observation, and cultural progression, often along sociological terms...

On a typical Friday night I am

Snuggling on the sofa with my boyfriend and my cat watching TV... Going out usually happens on Saturday nights. :)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

That a year ago I weighed 18 stone 7 (am normal weight now though :) ). ...that I recently quit smoking... and i recently quit playing World of Warcraft. It took 3 years of my life!

You should message me if

...if the sky is falling on your head...? O_o

Or if you're bored. I'll always talk back!