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Defkross

24 / M / straight / Single

Asheville, North Carolina

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am Open-minded, Passionate, and Creative.

My Self-Summary

I'm Ryan. I'm kinda shy at first but warm me up and I'll be telling bad jokes and throwing around deep ideas. Music is life for me, literally. I worked for myself at a recording studio for almost 4 straight years. I made tons of full lengths and demos for local songwriters and bands. It's pretty easy to record but it's difficult to listen to the same song over and over again. I have also been in and out of quite a few bands, all of them I loved and miss still. I have a deep appreciation for life and compassion. Everyday I want to make the world a better place even if it is in the smallest way possible. I do believe knowledge is key to life, so I'm a big reader, movie buff, and into learning anything in any form. To stop learning is like to stop living.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm back in school at UNCA for music and trying to adjust to moving to Asheville. I've always been one to strive after a dream and never quit. I figure if I die trying now then I won't die wondering how life could have turned out.

I’m really good at

Being creative. Whether its making a joke, silly perception, a short story, a weird invention or even a song. My mind just likes to race. I love just sitting down and writing a song on guitar or mixing together music and creating new tones and sounds. I also love cooking too. Making up new meals and dishes. I have no problem spending all day cooking. Just creating rocks.

The first things people usually notice about me

Hair, glasses, my resemblance to harry potter somedays

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Into the wild, Princess of Mars, The rum dairies, anything fear and loathing, If chins could kill, Cash by johnny cash, Sit down and shut up, and various graphic novels like Preacher or anything frank miller

Movies: shawshank redemption, Goodfellas, SLC punk, Dark Knight, Dark City, the crow, Fight club, Sin City, Evil Dead, Godfather I and II, The devils rejects, requiem for a dream, Memento, Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind, Donnie Darko, Paradise Lost, One flew over the cuckoo's nest, Dawn of the dead The real one!!, The Big Lebowski, Taxi driver, forest gump, Blood Diamond, Snatch, The King of Kong, Suburbia, Bubbahotep, Pulp Fiction, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, and the list goes on

Music: Black Mountain, The Gossip, Dredg, Shadows Fall, Witch, Blind Guardian, Queens of the stone age, Baroness, COC, Queen, Unknown Hinson, Megadeth, Rob Zombie, Black Label Society, The sword, Bruce Springsteen, Iron Maiden, Jack Johnson, Blue Oyster Cult, Rage against the machine, Norah Jones, Pink Floyd, Pixies, Anything Mike patton, Collective soul, Death, Captain Beefheart, Arch Enemy, Beach Boys, Hednrix, Quicksand, Elvis, Eddie Vedder, Metallica, Heart, Melvins, Bob Seger, Johnny Cash, Jimmy Eat World, Big Business, Iced Earth, Clutch, Danzig, Mozart, Damageplan, Pantera, Tim Barry, Deftones, Terry Reid, The Beatles, Led Zeppelin, Helmet, The Black Keys, Ray Charles, AC/DC, Allman Brothers, Rebel Meets Rebel, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Damien Rice, Misfists, Dead Kennedys, Mastodon, and so on and so forth

Food: I love anything home cooked with love. I dig just about all types of food, but southern comfort food is great, and southern comfort food with a vegetarian twist is becoming a fav.

The six things I could never do without

Computer, guitar, good books, good friends, movies, and beer

I spend a lot of time thinking about

New ways to enjoy life

On a typical Friday night I am

Going out to a show and drinking. Staying at home, cooking a new meal and drinking. Going home to visit my folks and drinking or going out to a bar in Asheville and drinking. Studying at home and not drinking.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I dance in my underwear to really bad pop music. I'd admit anything, honest and an open mind are some of the most attractive things in a person.

You should message me if

If you'd like to hang out with someone awesome.