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DeftNerd

28 M Forest Hills, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 12
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I have a geeky streak and an infectious taste for bad movies and tv shows.

Just trying to stay alive in this economy like everybody else...finished Columbia grad school and currently working as a credit analyst.

Also, teaching myself to play the guitar, but I am a bad teacher and a bad student.

Looking for a potential long-term relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Shooting arrows, flying through water like a lightning bolt, and pumping iron. (For the hyperbole-illiterate, that means archery, swimming, and gyming).

Also acquiring uncommon licenses (notary up next) and unconventional wisdoms, which I will bequeath onto my younger brother.

Oh, and shopping during holiday sales.
I’m really good at
Speaking in song lyrics and movie/show quotes
Putting IKEA furniture together without instructions
Working with my hands
Throwing winter and summer bbqs
Making ramyun
Nerding out

Not good at using chopsticks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: LOTR, Star Wars, The Fifth Element, Chris Nolan's Batman Movies, all the Star Trek movies, lots of sci-fi movies, and some romantic comedies (cough Matthew McConaughey cough).

Shows: The Boondocks, Community, The Big Bang Theory, Doctor Who, Stargate, Star Terk Voyager (Damn Ensign Kim), Star Trek TNG (Make it so, #1!), mostly sci-fi shows, Arrested Development, Always Sunny, The League, bad VH1 shows, Gordon Ramsay, Key & Peele, Epic Rap Battles of History, and others.

Music: Mostly just listen to the radio. But I listen to some kpop, jpop, rap, pop music, nobuo umematsu, movie/video game OST.

Food: Anything that tastes good but usually Japanese, Korean or hot pot. But not a big fan of Asian fusion and dumplings.
The six things I could never do without
Education
Family
Friends
Internet
Cellphone
Relaxation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What will I eat for lunch and dinner?
When will I pass my professional exams?
On a typical Friday night I am
Right now, studying and working. But I go drinking with friends on weekends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I got escorted out of a country.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
no if, just do.

You like nerds.
You reddit.
You understand meeting someone is all about taking a chance even if there is a low match.

Do or do not, there is no try.