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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 4
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Manic pixie dream guy.

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Is this just real life?

Is this just fantasy?

Caught in a landslide,

No escape from Queen's Greatest Hits.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything I put a modest amount of effort into.

The first things people usually notice about me
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Physically, almost always the bright blue eyes.

Recently though people have been on a (largely alcohol-fueled) kick of thinking I'm British, Australian, or vaguely European for no discernible reason.

I'm not, but it's kind of flattering in a David Tennant sort of way.

Oh, and apparently I'm a dead ringer for the Irish kid from Glee.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: A Song of Ice and Fire, Lord of the Rings, most Stephen King, Neil Gaiman, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Dune, Ender's Game, The Ghost in the Shell; most fantasy and sci-fi, really, with a slight preference towards modern fiction. I'm okay with most of the classics: Brave New World, Lolita, 1984, Pride and Prejudice, Invisible Man (and The Invisible Man, for that matter) and so on; I just tend to not seek them out in my spare time since I've spent entirely too long overanalyzing them for a useless degree I don't even use.

My top 3 movies in no particular order are Forrest Gump, The Green Mile, and The Shawshank Redemption. (What can I say? I like Tom Hanks.) Outside of those, I have an irrational love of terrible Nicolas Cage movies rivaled in passion only by the degree to which I'll defend Ke$ha as musically talented. I have good arguments for both, I swear.

Shows: American Horror Story, Orange is the New Black, House of Cards, Firefly, Breaking Bad, The X-Files, Game of Thrones, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Pushing Daisies, Dollhouse, Arrested Development, Adventure Time, Baccano!...I could go on.

Music: Almost anything. TROUBLE, TROUBLE, TROUBLE~ #goat

Food: Anything I cook (recently, that means awesome sesame chicken and cinnamon/brown sugar apple crepes), and a fair number of things I can't. Halal food trucks are my spirit animal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

Actually, scratch adventures. It's been appropriated by the 'I don't really know what I want out of life so I'm just going to adventure!' crowd of our generation. I much prefer shenanigans--it's like adventuring, but with direction.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People--what makes them tick, how they're thinking, what they are to me. What they are to others. Everything about them, really.

I sometimes have to stop and remind myself who I am. It's easy to lose sight of yourself here--to be crushed under the weight of the city's millions of broken and breaking dreams. I am John's terminal, dying sense of uniqueness.

Broken dreams aren't so bad, though; picking up the pieces means getting to start all over again with something new and incredible. Head in the clouds or stuck in the ground, dreams are what shape your life.

I may not know what I'll be doing two weeks from now, much less two years, but I know it'll be one hell of a ride. Care to join?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Kicking ass and chewing bubble gum.

And I'm all outta ass.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!

No, seriously.

Open book, no filter, and I love telling stories.

One time, I stole a fireplace poker from Dartmouth's library. It was smuggled out down a pair of pants. Two years later, I did it again.

My senior year of college wind ensemble, as concert master and lead clarinet, I played my last concert drunk. Never before has the solo in The Little Mermaid's Under the Sea been so beautiful.

At the age of twelve, I got to meet my mom's nudist boyfriend and play ping pong with him. He was pantsless (but wearing a shirt, curiously enough.) I spiked the ping pong ball into his dick.

Shall I go on?...
You should message me if
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You think gender norms shouldn't box women into always waiting for men to make the first move. A game with only one opening play isn't very exciting, now is it?