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24 M Wellington, New Zealand

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19–28
  • Located anywhere
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My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:19am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, Danish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm looking for a girl who thinks panic attacks are sexy. I have learnt you can only be obsessed with a couple of things at a time otherwise you will drive yourself crazy. I spend a lot of time online trying to fine tune my internet presence and I have tricked myself that this totally counts as art. I make zines, but I usually only make them at the last minute for zinefests rather than making them when I have time. I spend a lot of time thinking and reading about New Zealand music (which member of Look Blue Go Purple was the coolest? I vote for Norma O'Malley). I like the idea of community and think that only that will save the world. Inequality is stupid. Is it okay for a guy to list himself as Curvy?

I'm much more political than my profile makes me out to be. My political views tend to focus around inequality and community (or lack of) and how our economic system perpetuates these things. Fuck the patriarchy.
What I’m doing with my life
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studying english and philosophy at Vic, reading, writing, stand up comedy, hosting a new zealand music radio show, staying at home because I'm too anxious to leave the house, not working at a cinema anymore, sweating a lot, making zines, playing music, helping run a community art space, the internet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
the internet
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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No One Belongs Here More than You by Miranda July, A Supposedly Fun Thing I'll Never Do Again by David Foster Wallace, Reasons to Live by Amy Hempel, Jesus Son by Denis Johnson, Samuel Johnson is Indignant by Lydia Davis, Enormous Changes at the Last Minute by Grace Paley, Franny and Zooey by JD Salinger, Marcovaldo by Italo Calvino, To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee, Farther Away by Jonathan Franzen, Trout Fishing in America by Richard Brautigan, Rock Springs by Richard Ford, Revolutionary Road by Richard Yates, What We Talk About When We Talk About Love by Raymond Carver, Moon Deluxe by Frederick Barthelme, Norwegian Wood by Haruki Murakami, Tonto and The Lone Ranger Fistfight in Heaven by Sherman Alexie, Welcome to the Monkey House by Kurt Vonnegut, One Flew Over the Cuckoos Nest by Ken Kesey, The Trial by Franz Kafka, Underworld by Don Delilo.

I mostly listen to New Zealand music of the xpressway and flying nun etc variety. My favourites are The Renderers, The Terminals, Bailter Space, The 3Ds, This Kind of Punishment, The Dead C, Tall Dwarfs, Look Blue Go Purple, Trash, The Clean and all related projects of the above (this means the south island from 1980-1995). Other than that I listen to The Stooges, The Ramones, Jesus and Mary Chain, Pavement, The Microphones/Mount Eerie, Low, The Monks, Can, Neu, Faust, A Silver Mt Zion (and lots of other constellation artists), and My Disco. Basically men with guitars, I can't believe I wrote fuck the patriarchy earlier in my profile and then listed these bands.

I like movies movies written by Charlie Kaufman. I like watching the tv3 Sunday night romantic comedies, except now half the time they aren't even romantic comedies.

I used to mention Woody Allen in this section, but I don't think I'll ever be able to watch a film of his again without being able to connect it to him as a rapist and horrible person. I wish I hadn't celebrated him as a human before really knowing (admitting to myself more than knowing) what happened.

I like parks and recreation, six feet under and the simpsons. I have a fear of watching tv shows because I might get hooked then suddenly I have to watch 5 seasons of 22 hour long episodes. That's a big commitment. Broad City is the best thing that has happened on television in the last 1000 years and the mindy project is the perfect mix of every single romantic comedy rolled into one.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I feel weird if I don't know where my water bottle is
I have a bowl I eat every meal of and I get really upset when it goes missing.

This bowl broke, and it has broken my heart with it. If you know of a similar bowl (see picture) please contact me.

Update: flatmate found a new bowl that is very similar and I'm learning to love it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
inequality, mental health, my mental health, music, my music, how music can relate to and affect my mental health, literature, my own writing, how literature can relate and affect my mental health, the internet, my internet presence, internet culture, how internet culture can relate to my mental health, myself and everything I do and think about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either at a gig, or saying i'm going to a gig but then staying at home instead
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I want to kiss a girl on the mouth

also I'm about 80% asexual. I've got no idea if this is because I'm depressed or on medication or if its just the way I am. I'm only just coming to terms with this myself so a lot of my 'about sex' questions are probably not accurate. I don't even know how I feel about sex most the time.
You should message me if
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you want to be disappointed

Please don't message me telling me I'm selling myself short or that I should have confidence. I am selling myself short because I believe things should be cheap and I have low confidence for aesthetic reasons.