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Deluxeguy

52 M Denver, CO

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:53pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Construction
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Ok, so you already have a good idea of what I look like on the outside (and you are still here? Gotta give you some props for that). This is where you get a look at the inside so to speak. Lets start and the bottom and move our way to the top. First stop, is the left ankle. For those of you who can read an x-ray, you will notice a few fractures that never quite healed 100%. What does this mean to you, you might be asking yourself? This means you are very unlikely to see me standing at the top of a 14'er. For those of you wondering what that loud suction-like noise was, that was 90% of the women on this site heading for the exit. Not to worry though, 10% of you are still glued to your seats in anticipation of what is to follow. Ok, moving up to the left knee. Complete ACL reconstruction in 1999. The good news here is that it is now stronger than the right knee. What this means is that I can still tear up the slopes on a snowboard. I think we only lost 1% of you that don't like to be cold. This is where you will be rewarded for your persistence. Moving on to the heart. Although you will notice that there is a good amount of scar tissue there, the good news is that the heart is able to repair itself. Even better news is that it gets stronger with each repair. My heart is in a good place right now. Fully mended from all previous damage, and ready to give of itself fully to someone deserving of such a precious thing. You see, the heart has no memory and is able to love like it has never been hurt. I think we might have just got the 1% back that didn't want to be cold because they just figured out that they get to do something with their girlfriends on the 20 or so days that I am up on the mountain being cold. Back to the heart for just a second. I think it would be prudent to mention that even though the heart is capable of loving like its never been hurt, it is controlled by the brain. This is where we sometimes find conflict. The heart wants to freely love, and the brain says wait. That didn't turn out so well last time. Or the time before that, and so on and so forth.

This is where I think I differentiate myself from the pack. Have I been devastated a time or two? Of course. I don't think there are any of us here that have not been hurt. I have a theory that a person can only love as deeply as they have been hurt. That said, I am capable of amazing levels of love. I know this because I have lived those moments, and I trust that they will happen again. I pride myself and not being jaded by hurt, but strengthened by it. Molded by it. In the end, I have become a better human, friend, and lover because of it.

The woman in my life will not have to wonder where she stands with me. She will feel important to me. She will know that I love her not only because I will tell her often, but because I will do my very best to show her. I will text her or call her and tell her that I am thinking of her. I am a believer in the little things. I will know what her favorite flower is. I will remember her birthday even without all the little clues she plants around the house. I will know when she needs a hug as well as know when she needs her space. I don't know these things because I have super powers, but I know these things because I pay attention to what she says, and what she doesn't say.

So, what am I looking for in a woman you ask? The short answer is that I am looking for someone just enough like me so that we can enjoy one another's company but different enough so that she can teach me things that I've yet to learn. I am looking for someone who can become a friend first. Let's enjoy getting to know each other and have a ton of fun along the way. If all goes well, the love will happen without even trying. That is not to say that I don't understand that it takes work. I know that its not all fun and games, and I am willing to put in the work because I remember how great it is when two people are working towards the same goals.

If you want the long answer, you are going to have to put in some work of your own. Take a risk. Be a little vulnerable, and answer when I come calling. Or if you are comfortable enough to take even more risk, shoot me a message yourself and lets get this party started (so to speak).
What I’m doing with my life
First and foremost, I am being the best dad that I can be. I have a beautiful 14 yr old daughter who is fast becoming a woman. I wasn't sure that I was going to like this part, but I find myself really enjoying watching her mature and become her own person. If I could just convince her that she doesn't know everything just yet. She is a great kid and I am very proud of her. Aside from that, I am growing my home improvement business slowly but surely. I have been in construction in one form or another for all of my adult life. At the moment, I am doing residential door and window replacement. When I am not working, there is a good chance that you will find my on a lake trying to hang onto a rope and standing on a wakesurfer. I know, I know, the point is to let go of the rope and actually surf on the wake. I have just gotten to that level and am excited to report that I just pulled off my first 180 yesterday. Yay me!. If you are standing at the dock, and you don't see me on the lake, I might be touring the amazingly beautiful mountain roads of Colorado on my motorcycle. Whooops, just lost a few more of you right there I'm thinking. Don't worry, I'm not the outlaw biker dude with the hairy back sporting the black leather vest with nothing on underneath. I just like to ride my motorcycle. If you don't think you'd like sitting behind me and soaking up all the beautiful sights, just think of it as having more girl time while I am riding. I don't expect you to like everything that I like, and I am not going to like everything that you like. That said, I am excited for you to expose me to things that I haven't even considered to this point. That's what being in a relationship is all about.
I’m really good at
My career as a door and window contractor
Being a good dad
Being a friend
Volleyball
Id like to say snowboarding, but not sure I'll ever be really good at it
Making my partner feel loved and appreciated
Kissing (perhaps the best ever)
The first things people usually notice about me
From what I hear, it's my eyes
Some people have noticed that I don't have much if any hair on my head. Bald looks better than going bald, am I right?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Marley and Me, Shit my dad says, The five people you meet in heaven
Most of the movies I've seen lately have been with my daughter. I have seen most of the animated movies that have come out and have enjoyed most of them. There haven't been many "adult" movies that have interested me recently. The last movie that I enjoyed was Silver Linings Playbook.
I am all over the board with music. My daughter and I share the same ITunes account so there is a lot of pop, hip-hop, classic rock, alternative rock, and even a little bit of rap on my Ipod.

When it comes to food, there isn't a lot that I don't like. My favorite would be sushi. I could eat it daily. I am willing to try just about anything at least once. Other favorites are Mexican, Italian, Thai, and every once in a while, I love a good rib eye.
The six things I could never do without
My daughter
the outdoors
Hoodies
Love
Sushi
Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My daughters safety and well being. The price of tea in China. When I am going to make it back to Sushi Den in Denver (best sushi in Colorado). Why its 90 degrees all week while I am working, and rainy on the weekend. Why you cant read the numbers at the gas pump when you are wearing polarized sunglasses.
On a typical Friday night I am
not many typical Friday nights. Could be doing something with my daughter, taking a ride on the Harley, or just kickin back at home. Or better yet, doing something fun with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like a lot of the music on my daughters Ipod
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–57
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me if you are not afraid to find what you are looking for (or you would like to go to the lake, or the mountains, or would like to invite me on an adventure). Oh, and fyi, the person whited out in my pics is my daughter, not a gf, or wife, etc...just happen to be the only pics I could find where I wasn't wearing sunglasses.