Londoner with a propensity for wanderlust. Fortunately I've stumbled into a career that supports this impulse.
I see a lot of people describing themselves as 'sapiosexual' on here. I would too if I didn't think it would make me sound like a massive prick.
They say - 'they' being the hardened veterans - that OKC is primarily for hook-ups, but hook-ups with the respectability of dating attached. That's fine by me but I intend to be open and honest: I prefer my independence over romance, at least for the time being.
As such I'm mainly here to meet like-minds who also want to explore eroticism and intimacy, share experiences and make the most out of our fortunate but brief existence. That doesn't mean I'm a mindless, humourless, sex-addict... it just means that I know what I need right now, and what I need is a woman who finds the idea of destroying a bedroom with me appealing and whose post-coital conversation extends beyond how wasted they got last weekend.
N.B. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR ONE NIGHT STANDS. Rather, something more lasting and intimate. Ideally some kind of friendship would co-exist with, and even feed into, our physical connection. Well, a man can dream...
I find that the best sex is a blizzard of intense carnality, a shifting balance of power and control, people working both together and for themselves. I'm rough within reason. Love toys and new experiences. I tend towards being Dom but am by no means set in that role and a certain amount of push-back from my partner is always welcome.
I'm not nearly as robotic and one track minded as the above might make me seem. I am a feminist. I value an intelligent, inquiring and open mind - but not so open that your brain has fallen out. Most of all, humour - preferably bone-dry and black as night.