Londoner with a propensity for wanderlust. Fortunately I've stumbled into a career that supports this impulse.
I'm told that OKC is primarily for hook ups, but hook ups with the respectability of dating attached. That's fine by me but I intend to be open and honest: I prefer my independence over romance, at least for the time being.
As such I'm mainly here to meet like-minds who also want to explore eroticism and intimacy, share experiences and make the most out of our fortunate but brief existence. That doesn't mean I'm a mindless, humourless sex addict... it just means that I know what I need right now, and what I need is a woman who finds the idea of destroying a bedroom with me appealing and whose post-coital conversation extends beyond how wasted they got last weekend.
Ideally some kind of friendship would co-exist with, and even feed into, our physical connection. Well, a man can dream...
Can recite Baudelaire, but not while making love...
I find that the best sex is a blizzard of intense carnality, a shifting balance power and control, people working both together and for themselves. I'm rough within reason. Love toys and new experiences. I tend slightly towards being Dom but am by no means set in that role and a certain amount of push-back from my partner is always welcome.
I'm not easily satisfied.
I'm not nearly as robotic and one track minded as the above might make me seem. I am a feminist. I value an intelligent, inquiring and open mind - but not so open that your brain has fallen out. Most of all, humour. Deep, dark humour - not unlike my sex.