Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Attention: I'm finally back in Denton. I tried to leave but just
kept getting pulled back.
A lot about my life has changed just recently, so if you have seen
my profile before, it might be worth looking at again.
The longest relationship I have ever been in was just ended in a
very upsetting way. My girlfriend of almost 4 years left because
she wanted children. I dislike children. I had a vasectomy the day
I turned 21. I am sterile and will never have children. She told me
for almost 4 years that she did not want children. Then suddenly
she does. Very upsetting. I put this in my summary not out of
bitterness or to get sympathy but to emphasize that if you have
children or think you may want children someday I AM NOT FOR YOU.
Even if you just want something short term, I do not want to risk
falling in love with someone that I am so fundamentally
I'm a big fan of advice columnist Dan Savage. If you want a good
idea of what kind of relationship I'm looking for, check into
Savage's description of a "monogamish" relationship. I'm not a fan
of sexually monogamy, but I've tried the poly thing and it isn't
for me either. I'm looking for a primary partner to love, but we
can both occasionally sleep with other people.
I'm a graduate of the University of North Texas. I have a diploma
in Theatre Performance and English Creative Writing. Oddly enough,
I'm very introverted off stage. I'm not really comfortable being
"me" because I'm never sure how to behave. Playing a character, on
the other hand, is the easiest thing in the world.
PS. My hair alternates between long and short for theatre purposes.
It is quite long now.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently the Secretary of a not-for-profit theatre company
that some friends started after they graduated. I do a lot of
acting for them as well as some boring business stuff.
My day job is for an auto-finace company. It pays the bills very
well, but I'm trying for a career in the arts.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to think I am a really good actor and writer. I'm the
world's best listener. I'm very good at most any video game.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How quiet I am. That I am a good listener. That I'm afraid to make
eye contact until I get to know you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My friends
2. Something to read
5. My vasectomy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex, mostly. Any guy who tells you otherwise is lying to you.
I also spend an unhealthy amount of time thinking about
Also, Harry Potter.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At rehearsal. Or home playing video games. I go out sometimes,
I tend to avoid crowds. Partying can be fun with the right
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm absolutely terrified to message people on here. If you are
interested, please message me first because I will likely never
have the courage.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Message me if you are in my area and want someone to hang out with
or talk to. I love to do nerdy things, or just relax. Message me if
you are child-free and intend to remain that way for the rest of
Message me if you're looking for a long-term or short-term romantic
relationship that does not have to be strictly monogamous all the
Come to think of it, anyone should message me for any reason they
want. I'm not exactly drowning in messages or anything. If nothing
comes of it it will at least be entertaining.
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