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39 M Denver, CO

My Details

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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
Not sure what to put here yet. This is a work-in-progress, as am I.
What I’m doing with my life
Striving for progress; not perfection. For far too long, I've put everyone else first, and although I don't regret being there for them, I've neglected my strategic goals. I love to work hard, but I'm also focusing on my own self improvement plan, which includes playing more, and getting rid of anything from my life that doesn't enrich or positively contribute to this life experience.
I’m really good at
I love to play poker (not to get rich, but love the challenge), working out (I'm evil-strong - I'm the one everyone calls to help them move), trivia, and always learning and expanding my intellectual horizons and life experiences.
The first things people usually notice about me
Boundless sense of humor
Extraordinary intelligence
Yeah, the muscles get noticed too - but I'm better known for my brain than brawn.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
- Technical/work literature
- Non-fiction
- An occasional Tom Clancy novel

- Too many to list, but yet I'm known as the "Oh my God, you haven't seen that movie? You got to see that movie" guy...

TV - I try to limit myself to no more than 5 shows that I follow at a time. My present list:
- The Big Bang Theory
- Southland (Cancelled...)
- Spartacus (Ended...)
- Law & Order (Cancelled...)
- Law & Order: SVU
- Open slot... (Although considering my track record with favorite shows, I don't want to curse another show into oblivion!)

Food - I'm a big foodie (without being snobbish and elitist about it):
- The Palm
- Del Friscos
- Sullivan's
(To name a few - yes, I love steak, but also love wild-caught salmon, other assorted seafood, Asian, and Itialian)
The six things I could never do without
Music and humor
Being active and outdoors in this beautiful state
Great food
Reliable transportation
My walk with God
(I don't list family or friends here because I always keep the distinction between people and things - and live by the addage, "Love people, not things; use things, not people.")
I spend a lot of time thinking about
a lot of things. I'm blessed with a very active mind and I gotta keep it busy - remember, devil's playground?
On a typical Friday night I am
Having dinner with friends, playing poker with friends, working out, or flying off for an impromptu weekend out-of-town.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I understand the meaning of "private!"
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're looking for someone genuine, considerate, and fun. Always looking for people to enrich my life and expand my extensive list of great restaurants.
Ideally, looking for a potentially serious relationship, but it's foolhardy to focus only on the goal (destination), and not relish experiencing the journey.
I met my best friend-that-is-a-girl through online dating several years ago and I couldn't imagine how my life would be without her (really, it's totally platonic - she's happily married now).