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38 F Oakland, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 8:53pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Greek (Poorly), Sanskrit (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I play tabla, lived in India and studied Ayurveda. I love dark, deep heavy bass lines to dance to. I'm modern and independent yet love the ancient practices. I love meditation and going on retreat.

I'm committed to my community and love my family and friends.
What I’m doing with my life
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Teaching children, laughing, meditating, playing tabla, dancing, gardening, riding my bike, cooking, reading, and teaching Ayurveda.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to friends, making people laugh, giggling, face painting, drawing, dancing...connecting people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My deep dark brown eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: 1Q84(Murakami), Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism(Chogyam Trungpa), classical texts: Hatha Yoga Pradipika, Ashtanga Hridayam
Movies: Baraka, Samsara, foreign (Almodovar), Triplets of Belleville, Red Balloon, Waking Life, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless mind
TV: don't watch it, although The Simpsons make me giggle
Music: Swapan Chaudhuri, Ustad Ali Akbar Khan, (& many other classical Indian musicians), jazz, blues, chamber music, world, electronica, breakbeat, hip hop (Mos Def, Jurrasic 5, KRS 1, Tribe Called Quest, etc), drum n bass, dub, reggea, singer/songwriter, Radiohead, Bjork, Iron & Wine, my friend's
Food: sushi, Indian, Thai, Greek, my cooking
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Community: Friends/Family
My Bicycle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Balancing work, community, and play. Trying not to think.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching up with friends, taking a friend's restorative yoga class, dancing, going to a show, going to dinner, making dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was a little girl, I created dance routines on a mini trampoline to Madonna's "Lucky Star" and many other songs. Also, I used to cartwheel instead of walk around.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you are joyful, know how to laugh & don't take it all seriously. If you like the dark side of things yet remain optimistic and open to enjoying life.

If you live in Oakland and are up for a fun bike ride, or a hike. If you love camping and exploring nature.

If you can answer: What is the nature of existence?

Don't message me if your profile shot involves your shirt off, you write the same thing to lots of women, or you don't believe that you are amazing.