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30 Tucson, AZ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:10pm
Queer, Bisexual
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Mostly vegan
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English, Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I landed in Tucson 3 1/2 years ago after a lot of moving and exploring, and I love this town more every day

I value my friendships above all else in the world. I love to cook, make art, grow food, ride my bike, and go camping. My latest project is trying to become a beekeeper!

ENFP, virgo, enneagram 2.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I think the best thing you can do for the world is be the most authentic version of yourself, and I'm trying to live every day with that intention. I laugh a lot but I also roll my eyes a lot.

As far as work, I've had a strange variety of really interesting jobs - I've worked as: a photo editor in magazine publishing , a victim's advocate for survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault, full time staff at a homeless shelter (by far my favorite job), a WWOOF'er, a cook, and a buncha other stuff. I came to the border to take a job at a non-profit involved in education and activism around both immigration and food justice issues, and right now I run a Food and Nutrition program at a domestic violence shelter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whistling! Reading out loud. Hitting potholes I'm trying to avoid. Losing things out of my bike basket. Relaxing. Empathizing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know, that I'm smaller than the average person, probably. You'll have to tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My all time favorite books are A Language Older Than Words by Derek Jensen (an uplifting 418 pages about how the dominant culture is destroying the planet) Cunt:A Declaration of Independence by Inga Muscio, a House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros, almost anything by Barbara Kingsolver, and lately Margaret Atwood.

I don't watch a lot of movies (you should see how long it takes me to pick one on Netflix.) I do love documentaries. As far as TV, I got rid of the one-eyed monster years ago and I think it's one of the best things you can do for your sanity/quality of life, especially if you're a woman. Since internet TV is a thing I do watch some - Last Week Tonight with John Oliver, Broad City, BBC miniseries, Girls. I religiously listen to a lot of podcasts.

Food is kind of my life, I'm the most comfortable and relaxed when I'm in the kitchen. I like to grow food, harvest wild desert bounty, can and pickle, and cook for the people I love.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My women friends, aspen trees, ketchup, my sister, sunglasses, and a cozy place to sleep.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it must have been like to look up at the night sky and not know what the stars were. The patriarchy. How some people can function so well hungover. When I can travel, where I can go, and who I can see. Who figured out how to eat an artichoke. Everything anyone has ever said to me. How much longer it will be until the planet is completely ruined. How fucking cool the desert is. How simultaneously powerful and powerless we are. How much I don't know.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner/drinks/dancing/going to a show/collapsing from my exhausting job.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've never seen like any classic movies. This includes but is not limited to: star wars, the big lebowski, the matrix, the godfather, lord of the rings and anything else you think "everyone" has seen.
You should message me if
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You're an intelligent, extroverted woman or man who is passionate about something and wants to get to know me.

I'm looking to date, casually or seriously depending on the person/chemistry. I've been beyond lucky to find a wonderful community of friends, so while I would be friends with someone I meet who isn't a good match for a partnership, I'm really not looking for new "just friends." Please say something more than "hey."