[Update 6 Nov 2014: ...Still in Africa]
[Update 20 Sep 2014: Still in Africa]
Hi! I'm naturally inclined to not talk too much about myself and prefer to ask the questions ((he turns on the interrogation lamp and shines it back at you)) I'm more interested in others than myself and I tend to overlook my accomplishments because of a sense of imbued antipathy for resting on my laurels. I am in no rush (I'm out of the country til summer of '15) for a physical relationship and need to figure a few things out on where I stand with relationships in general. If you ask me a question I will be 100% honest bc being anything other is not what I want to be. ((and being 100% honest is like mental exhibitionism))
I've been successful with my career and most other pursuits in life. My life has been more interesting than I set out to make it...some days I believe I don't really understand how driven I am. I could be considered a recovering workaholic...could be, but some days I don't believe I have grasped the concept of a recovery stage. ((maybe it's because you have not admitted there is a problem with working a lot..))
I want to find someone who knows how to stop the insanity for a little while. Humor and a great smile, personality, intelligence and healthy.
Okay, if you need more of a summary - I've lived on four continents, three of them more than once; single malt scotch, no blends; red wine; smart humor with the occasional physical; my television is ostensibly turned off unless I really care to watch something; war zones, yeah I've got my t-shirts; it takes a lot for me to get upset (recent travel issues in Africa almost did it); I like to get dressed up, but not all the time because I am most comfortable in jeans or khakis and a long sleeved shirt; snow over a sandy beach; dark leather and wooden furniture; and there is nothing uglier to me than ignorance coupled with arrogance. I appreciate confidence.
...I have single here, but there was no selection for "Separated with intent to divorce."