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Desertopa

21 / m / straight / single

Mahwah, New Jersey, United States

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pensive, inventive, and reclusive

My self-summary Propose an edit

I've had a lifelong passion for science, but I have a much more than passing interest in creative media. I'm interested in anything with a story to tell, from books to video games to the universe itself. I'm a natural recluse, and have a hard time making the first move in social situations; more so in person than online. I spend a lot of time thinking, and I pride myself on the ability to come up with good ideas, but on the other hand I suspect I don't spend enough time actually doing things. I probably ought to have a "more athletic" award here, seeing as I work out seven days a week (nerds can be in shape too.) I'm a big fan of the fantasy genre, and hope to pen a book or two of my own someday. I don't really foresee myself dating anyone on this site, but I wouldn't completely rule it out. Mostly I'm looking for friends.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I'm a college student, majoring in environmental science. At the rate I'm going, I'll probably pick up a philosophy degree as well. Beyond college, I don't really know. Professionally, I'd like to pursue a scientific career, but there's a lot of creative work I want to do on the side.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Creative expression, theoretical science, fencing, singing, whistling, throwing together a really clever Halloween costume out of whatever happens to be lying around.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

It depends a lot on the situation. In an ordinary social situation, if people notice me at all, they notice that I'm an introvert. I don't open up easily. In an academic situation on the other hand, like in a classroom, I always have something to say. I alternate between being making enlightening and helpful contributions and completely derailing productive conversations. When I'm forced into close social situations with people (roommates, for example) the first thing they notice is that I tend to be socially awkward. The second is that I am highly intellectual (I feel pretentious describing myself as such, but that's the impression people tell me I give.) Somewhere well down the line is the fact that I have a keenly developed sense of humor. I never reveal that side to a lot of people, but to those with whom I do, it's an integral part of my personality.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books:George R. R. Martin's "Song of Ice and Fire" series, Phillip Pullman's "His Dark Materials" trilogy, Douglas Adams' "Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy" series, Dianna Wynne Jones' "The Dark Lord of Derkholm," much of Terry Pratchett's "Discworld" series, and various works of Neil Gaiman
I also read a hell of a lot of webcomics.

Movies: Not nearly as much that's made an impression on me, but I'm a fan of Hayao Miyazaki's works.

Music: Not rap, jazz, or R&B, but practically everything else. I have a soft spot for humorous or ironic music.

Food: Sushi, and anything really, really spicy.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

I always need a few close friends to confide in. I'm trying to phase out the meat in my diet, but I doubt I can ever fully let go of seafood. I have to be able to spend some time alone with my thoughts. Books. Can't forget books. The internet. I don't know how we ever got along without it. A place where I feel at home.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Science, philosophy, the future, what makes people tick, stories of every kind.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Probably alone, reading.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I was willing to work as an artists' model (nude) as a part time job at college. Turns out they only accept people from outside the school, to avoid awkwardness.

Also, not as private, but more amusing, I've been stalked by a girl over my resemblance to Harry Potter.

You should message me if Propose an edit

You're up for friendly conversation, or are convinced we are soulmates and you absolutely have to tell me.

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Desertopa: 464 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.73m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn't matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
N/A
Kids
N/A
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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